The effect of new attention in a post-op world

Just a short musing on why I am glad I am married right now. The attention from males is hard to process.

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[MiyuKamiyama]

Is the difference really that drastic? I posted on one of your other videos about getting the surgery and losing 80 pounds. I still have a long way to go until I get to my goal but... I've never had a real boyfriend, i'm nineteen. I'm kind of nervous around guys. Knowing they act so different is kind of scary...

[massagegoddess]

The difference is even more drastic now. Everyone treats you different (strangers mostly)

[rockcityaudio]

Hahaha Enjoy it girl,you went through hell so know enjoy heaven!

Jon.x

[massagegoddess]

Thanks!

[melitriotcancan]

lol i would get pissed i know this world is very judgemental.. but if i started getting male attention now, i would get pissed, and show them a fat picture of me (when i'm thinner of course lol) and say, "would you date this girl?" see what they're answer would be.. i'm glad i'm taken too. it's nice to know my man loves me for who i am lol. but i still can't wait to get the surgery lol

[burnman96]

Oddly enough, i've experience the same attention from women. I don't know how to react my self, and i am gratful to already be married to a wonderfull carring lady. Who says all men are pigs, lol.

[PBottomPoochies]

LOL..."a lot of the ones I've seen are neurotic and don't understand their power." OMG...HOW TRUE IS THAT!!!? I've always said- God made me fat to keep me humble. If I were gorgeous, I'd be a true b IOTCH...if u knowhutimean.

Miss your posts. Come on, miss bubbly - how 'bout an update?

[intelivision]

"a lot more bubblier?" -wow

[BecomingHealthy]

@massagegoddess I went through a similar situation. I wasn't ready for it so I gained most of the weight back but with age comes maturity so I am getting back up on that horse and I am going to lose the weight again lol. I love your videos they are so inspiring!!!

[freetobejbp]

Call me a cad but you went from a ugly fat girl to a ugly thin girl. Do it for your health.

[ARTHEROPY]

Lookin at your old pics you look good!

[bigops]

dam you look amazing if you weren't married OMG

[sabbathThebat]

wahaaaa that is so0o0ooo amazing u look soo0o differnt like wow seriously bravoo0ooooooooo

[scared5hitless]

don't do it girl...lol some men are just to tempting...I'm happily married too but for a while there whoa! I was getting some game! I was flirting back a lot until i realized my man loves me more than i can handle and I love him 10 times as much. anyway. so I quit being a flirt. plus..I have the best husband in the world. He does it for me in every way. and he's still madly in love with me...so just be pretty, feel pretty and share your thoughts.

[SOiTiSTrUe]

The golden thing for women who come into adulthood larger, they see the real in the "male Population as well as society in general" I can say this, Thank God I was a bigger girl because I would have probably ended up like some women Pregnant at an early age like my mother. But since I was bigger I didnt get the attention as much and I had nothing to worry about. My Surgery is May 12th 09, Yahoooo My fiance just had his monday!!!! Videos are posted!!! Thanks Amila, you have chanced our lives

[amthe1sweetangel29]

and for sure i fear that WHEN im skinny...im just gonna be a big attention whore...or just a whore in general! haha! yikers!