She had part of her son's penis cut off, but now...

"I so regret having my part of first son's penis chopped off. I was young. I was naive. I will never be responsible for having that done to another child ever again.

When I was pregnant, I found and loved Dr Sear's The Baby Book. I read what he said about circumcisions. But when the pediatrician I had picked out said she recommended it to all her parents, I figured what did I know....

So I let some arrogant doctor, who couldn't even be responsible for a decent delivery, cut my poor newborn baby. Why on earth should a doctor who went to school and studied FEMALE ANATOMY and works with FEMALES all day long be in charge of surgery on a 2 day old MALE baby?

Anyhow--I cried when I saw what they did to him. I cried when I changed his diapers and he cried when the diapers touched him. I cried when the ring around his poor penis got all yellow and gunky. I cried when he cried as the pediatrician 'inspected' him for infection.

Why on earth do we insist on having elective SURGERY on our newborns? Why do we live in a society that presents this as a procedure, not an invasive surgery?

When I was pregnant with my second son, my husband was concerned about him not 'matching' and what would I say to our first son about it.... I looked my first son in the eyes and told him that I am sorry. That I didn't know better. That I did what I thought was best--and yet still need to say I'm sorry, because what I thought was best just wasn't good enough. I should have researched. I should have asked. I should have done something other than blindly following.

My second son is intact and we haven't regretted it for a second.

Do yourself a favor. Hold your baby in your arms and don't let go. Not for anything. Look your baby over from head to toe and realize that he is perfect just the way he is. "

Category:

People & Blogs

Tags:

• baby
• infant
• birth
• pregnant
• mother
• one
• son
• cut
• another
• uncut
• hospital
• circumcision
• foreskin
• regret
• guilt
• agony
• naive
• misinformed
• invasive
• ignorant
• health
• cleaner
• norm
• custom
• ritual
• rite
• herd
• mentality
• pack
• follower
• sheep
• parents
• decision
• bodily
• tattoo
• ear
• piercing
• penis
• father
• child
• compare
• genitalia
• differences
• scalpel
• rip
• slice
• defile
• choice
• consent

[Zojidak]

@DaleEarnhardtRIP Did you get to try out(masturbation, intercourse?) your whole penis before part of it was cut off?

[DaleEarnhardtRIP]

I'm glad I was circumcised.

[LilPiNat]

Ascher: did it hurt?

[Razman360]

@origionalwinja are you kidding? I dont know how anyone could condone the mutilation of a new born baby.

Have you ever slept around with the use of condoms with someone infected by an STI? THATS how STIs are passed around, not through having a foreskin.

[Zojidak]

@origionalwinja The biggest problem most guys with foreskin ever have, is that someone thinks there is a problem. In Europe where they do not do secular infant circumcision, has generally lower STD and AIDs rates than the US. The AAP says that the health benefits of infant circumcision are too small to recommend the procedure. Adult circumcision is rarely ever medically warranted. You didn't even have a chance to try out your whole penis before part of it was cut off.

[6TangosDown]

the DTR. And although I won't be able to regrow the nerve endings, at least I will feel better covered. I am currently trying to get full coverage with a little overhang, I've heard it makes sex and masturbation more fun if you have more skin to play with;)

[6TangosDown]

Finally that bitch, Kate201024, shut the hell up. Good lord she can ramble on and on.

Anyway, I'm actually very proud of this mother for coming out and saying what she did. My own mother did not want me circumcised but unfortunately, after she died, when I was 7 my dad had me cut because I was getting frequent infections. Do I blame him for having it done to me? No. Do I wish he hadn't had it done? Of course. Luckily there is such a thing as foreskin restoration. I'm currently restoring with th

[MrKiller7001]

@goodstuffeasy troll harder

[rtrain67]

circumcision is no better than what was done to the vaginas of those women in aftica.

This skin is there for a reason. Burn whatever book told you to do this and spare your child this madness.

[Zojidak]

@goodstuffeasy I'm circumcised and I dislike it.