DEBATE & DISCUSSION: DATING, DISCIPLINE AND YOUR CHILD

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[sjoyreed]

Thank you for bringing this back!

[AFRICANEXPORT]

@sjoyreed Thanks for watching

[1Serepha]

what hair are you wearing???

[AFRICANEXPORT]

@1Serepha Outre Half Wig "Nicki"

[berryberry87]

Can I add that I LOVE the "debate and dicussion" series!

[MichaelPAUSA]

Smart woman (smiles).

[aylix89]

@20pearlsNcurls i agree. i personally dont like the idea of random men playing the role of father. for that reason i wouldnt expect them to love and pamper them. i dont think that mentality is fair to the child or the partner

[aylix89]

no. i would never try to replace that childs father. i wouldnt allow him to psychically reprimand my child. but my child would see him an authority figure. but i would that man know his boundaries and rule when talking to my child 

[mzcool71]

only the parents of the child can and should discipline their child. black women so quick to let their men pretend to be dad to achild that not theirs !!!!!!!!!!!!!. . children must be taught to respect others. single women who have boyfriends need to be aware that this men are mor prone to beat and abuse their children real talk

[giggles771984]

thank  you thank you thank you, i work with kids and i couldnt agree with you more

[dillinger4875]

Excellent video, Real Talk.

[3HRDWAY]

Iv been thru tht but the guy showed favortizum towards one of my othr children but wanted the othr to "do as I say" and I wasnt with tht!, u cleared tht up for me but the guy has to treat all the "lil pkgs" the same, my kids, well one do "test" the guy but hell! Shes protecting her momma the ONLY ONE whos been thr for her from day one, and if a guy dont like it he can cont. Whr he left off, keep it moving... Tht was a sour relationship it went nowhr fast but this one thr comfy with :-)

[ynobe504]

it's interesting that you say african proverb..i have friend that is a single parent, who claims to believe the same. the most ironic thing is she corrects people for correcting her children. bottom line they're rude and unruly. she gets offended when close friends and family bring this to her attention..so i'm glad you put this debate out for discussion..

[ije1978]

I agree: the village raises the child. If you get to the point where you are introducing a significant other into your child's world, they should be able to discipline them. your children should always respect other adults. now if you do not trust that other person to do so, maybe you should not have brought them around huh? my ex had a a little girl and i let him know from day 1 that if he brings her around me, she will be treated the way i would treat my niece/nephew: with disciplining love.

[xxLondanSoothesxx]

From my point of view: there are a lot of adults who take advantage of their authority. Give the child a chance to warm up to them. It takes more than a year.