Love and Dating- Settling Down? Part 1

Dating when you're in your mid-thirties is tough. So many people have said to me to just find someone and settle down... but I am an idealist. I want to fall in love and find that special connection. I will not SETTLE for less! I would rather be single. I will wait until the next lifetime to make that connection!

But I am wondering.... Where is he? Lol.

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[tommax26]

Oh Connie....what is SO fascinating is that I am watching this video on March 3rd and know that one month after you made this video you accepted THE Man into your life. We both know who that Man is....haha. More than just a man, wouldn't you say? ...but worth all the passionate love you can give Him....and He will take care of you beyond your wildest dreams. No settling down on His mind, only Divine adventure!!!

[aphoenixrising11]

@tommax26- Little did I know that I know that the love I was looking for was in the Lord Jesus! HE was the ONE I had been looking for this whole time! I feel I may already be married... married to my King. =)

[vizion24]

Just a heads up about the Twilight series.... Stephenie Meyers got the story from the demonic world. I'm serious. She said she had voices in her head and it compelled her to type the story out. She never intended to write the story nor was she ever interested in vampires.

[aphoenixrising11]

@vizion24- Whaaatt?? Are you serious? Wow, didn't know that the author got that from the demon world... Hmmm... maybe that's why i had weird feelings about her whenever I saw her on TV or saw her in an interview or something.. Well, I made that video before I was saved so i didn't catch that.. but thanks for the heads up... It makes sense.

[30somethingdude]

.....You should not hurry anything, remain true to yourself. Hopefully your match comes along and makes you complete.

Me personally I don't date that much, in part because I feel that many people are sheep and lost and hard to find a normal person to connect with, and I don't even consider my standards to be high, it's just that most others' standards are low! :D

Thanks for being so open with the world in this video!

[aphoenixrising11]

@30somethingdude- Thanks for your encouraging words! I know I am single for a reason... I feel I am JUST starting live my life and answer my calling... long story... but yea, I am not in any rush... there is a reason for everything. Nice channel you have! I just saw it now!

[tommax26]

@aphoenixrising11 Yes, Yes!!! Truly a spiritual marriage to your mighty (and) sweet King. Praise the Lord. SOOOOOOO happy for you. Let us join the angels in singing PRAISES to the King of Kings.

[vizion24]

@aphoenixrising11 Well, I'm not going to say I'm 100% sure she did but just based on the evidence it really does seem like she did. I'll send you a private message of a link to a post I made about it.

[30somethingdude]

@aphoenixrising11 hey thanks for subscribing. yeah i am firmly a believer that when you don't look for something, it just happens to you.

[30somethingdude]

Modern day 30s are a strange thing. My Facebook makes me cringe when I see women competing to share baby pictures (people always thinks their kid looks the best, even when he or she is butt ugly!).

I'm not sure about finding your match though, I have a more pragmatic view these days. I think we (and women especially) have been led to feel they can find that perfect match but what if chance does not fall your way and you never find it?

I know where you are coming from though.....