A Letter From My Birth Mother

A letter my birthmother wrote to me.
Song is "The Reason" by Hoobastank

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• Adopt
• Adoption
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• Reason

[princess184sugar]

omg... that made me cry!.... she really loves you sooo soo much!!!! hope youll find each other! god bless

[mmarx11]

The words are chosen so strongly that mark in my heart. I can't understand it all ,but what I understood from it ,made me cry. I offer my respect for the bio Moms and adop parrents.one gives a piece of their heart and the other is making it part of his heart.You have got big heart, people.

[mayaspalace]

This really broke my heart! Who ever raised you did a great job! You have a beautiful forgiving heart! I cant imagine giving my daughter up for any reason but many women say they wouldnt do what I do now. I am active duty military and Ive deployed twice, leaving my baby. I felt that I was doing what I had to do in order to take care of her. So in a way, I understand your mom. I want the best for my daughter and your mom wanted the best for you! God bless you!

[KSS3995]

& to Jelena2112 there are several reasons why people give their children up, Most of the time it is because of Stability reasons MONEY, and we dont want our children moving around, taken from one school to the next, only to make the childs life miserable for them. So maybe you should think a little different. Its not because we dont want them its all about them and on the other hand if you give up your child simply because you didnt want them then thats a different story.

[jelena2112]

i dont get people giving their baby up....looks so cruel to me... =(

[dinochickforever]

To any mother hesitating to write a letter to their child before relinquishing them, I say go for it. I was never able to hear my mother's voice or read a letter from her. Trust me, one letter will immensely help your son or daughter through a lifetime of loneliness.

[SuperTruth77]

I traced & met my biological mother a few years ago- WORST MISTAKE EVER.

I don’t know what I was hoping to find, but she turned out to be a FILTHY woman living in a dirty house frequented by various male callers. Basically, although nearing 60 she eked out a living as a prostitute bringing a few minutes’ loveless rutting to her tragic clients, even taking one upstairs to her putrid bed as I tried to talk to her. I walked out holding my Bible close, shamed to be spawned from such dross.

[KSS3995]

You are so lucky to have gotten her letter and to know SHE ALWAYS HAS LOVED YOU, I am also a Birthmom and my son was 2 1/2 when he was given up/ taken from me and I can personally tell you ITS A HARD THING TO LiVE WITH FOR THAT MANY YEARS...Im sure she cried all the time just like I DO! Be lucky she is still alive some people dont even want to see their birthmoms. Your a wonderful person for giving her some closure!!! Hope that you will put a reunion video on here to show the good things to come

[prayer1138]

i was taken from my mother at 9 days old,im 16 years old going on 17 in january,i met my mother on may 30,2011 she came from virginia to South Carolina to find me, i hadnt talked to her in 6 years. until the beginning of may. i knew i had to meet her as soon as possible im in virginia now,social services took me again,until i turn 18 im counting down the days,i visit her every week,im here to tell you it gets better.

[095Kara]

Im glad you got such a thoughtful letter from your birthmother! I wish I had gotten at least one thing from mine. I hope all goes well for you and you end up meeting her if you haven't already! :)

[alyciaann]

It's hard to write... The letter. I've written so many to my unborn daughter, but nothing I write fully expresses the depth to which I love her. I cried so much while reading this... she is due to arrive in 6 weeks. Her adopting parents just came to visit and I like them very much. I know she will be happy and taken care of. But that doesn't make it any easier when I so badly want to be a mom and take care of her. I don't know what to say to make her know just how much she means to me.