Brad Womack Is Confronted By The Women He Rejected

Brad Womack Is Confronted By The Women He Rejected
When Brad Womack returns to "The Bachelor" for his second go-round at trying to find true love, he first is confronted by the two women he rejected: DeAnna Pappas and Jenni Croft. December 20, 2010

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• The Bachelor
• Season 15
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• DeAnna Pappas
• Jenni Croft

[ProvidentTools]

Maybe this guy is gay. He certainly looks like a gay dude. That might be the problem Brad. You really like men.

[Daryder650]

Good thing he is getting another chance

[evaheartdrive]

so nothing.

just noticed in the first comment i wrote "command" instead of "comment". humm humm humm

[evaheartdrive]

@evaheartdrive and we have to be able to switch these buttons.. like strong personality actors. just switching the costumes, and also deep inside always be aware of who we are, who we know ourselves to be. Or maybe be okay with the fact that we change constantly and that we do not need that solid base, whereas: why are we then making a fuss about it?

yeah cause it hurts... and pain is the teacher? and we chose to learn? so?

[evaheartdrive]

@evaheartdrive so yeah, maybe i was right, when as a child i used to fantasies about having a secret relationship.

maybe that is the only solution to save a relationship for people, who are sensitive and prone to whatever is coming from outside. maybe some people should just not give other the opportunity to be able to judge their relationship. but again, these masks and roles and what we are showing to others and what we truly are.. makes causes a separation a duality within ourselves. ...

[evaheartdrive]

@evaheartdrive thing keeps them so busy, that they can't find the will or time or energy to do what u do. i'm just saying we are different. and i understand that the system works towards making us all the same. and okay, maybe we did on some level choose, to become part of that system, cause otherwise why are we here? but please, be aware, that it is not the same for all of us to get into that same mold.

but we are still supposed to be responsible for everything that we do express to others.

[evaheartdrive]

@evaheartdrive about, cause it was the general outlook that i had before i had any of the REAL experience myself. like they just want order, because.. if we have to try hard/suffer so much in our relationship, others should too. and i've been known to be lazy. but u know, i haven't been lazy in thinking about relationships in trying to defend and justify myself. someone may seem lazy, cause he's not doing what u're doing. but u never know if u don't meet them or even after that, what other ...

[evaheartdrive]

@evaheartdrive bothered me in the past. which is supposed to be left behind. but it takes two 'relationship trained' people. and we did not all get that training in our upbringing or whatever life experience we let to get to us more than 'those others' would.

but i think i also understand what some of these other people are so bothered about, cause it was the general outlook that i had before i had any of the REAL experience myself. like they just want order, because.. if we have to try hard..

[evaheartdrive]

@evaheartdrive And first time I heard about this bachelor, who is in the show the second time, i watched some of those talks about being to counsellign, and what i heard reminded me of me at that time so much! so much! made perfect sense to me, that if u do not feel sure about someone, u don't go there. cause then - what happened to me was, i was always throwing this forth in my mind: i didn't like him THAT much in the first place.. no wonder we still can't see eye to eye. remembering what ...

[evaheartdrive]

@evaheartdrive business is one tough to figure out. easier for those who don't even try? or what am I missing, that other people seem to

have!?

sometimes i have a great idea that seems so clear, but then it turns out later on, that that idea was already put out there or that i have compounded it from two or more other people's ideas.

thoughts in my head are simillar to thoughts of people who are physically in proximity, and/or important to me. I have been known to not have a solid base....

[evaheartdrive]

@evaheartdrive as u were the first time.. but the second time, there were already judgments (be it positive or negative

ones.. just us viewers guessing, messing our own experience and what was put on us into your show/experience) from the previous show.

i am trying to make people aware of this aspect of interconnectedness. do not judge your connections, cause they all have at least two sides. they seem

supporting from one side, and distracting from another.

i mean this relationship ...

[evaheartdrive]

@evaheartdrive refreshing water. or before the storm, and after the storm. so i wouldn't take any of it as

insignificant. but trying to figure out the effects of all this 'outside' factors tends to be too much. thus it's best to stick to oneself in the moment

and place u were/are in. but then also we need to add up to that moment lessons from our own past experience. not what others said, but exactly from our own

experience.

so maybe the second time, u were super ready, ...