"Parental Alienation"

A WAKE UP CALL!
FYI - a parent who keeps their children away from the child or childrens other loving parent, (or grandparents) after separation, divorce, or in any situation are alienators and emotional abusers. Some cases (like mine) openly confessing to this very abuse, as a way to "punish" the ex-spouse (ME) for his/hers (my ex-husbands) hurt, frustation and vengence. The alienator parent often knowingly (and more than anxiously) wants to subject their innocent child victims to their conscience choice to inflict pain, abandonment issues, or even emotional trama and abuse on these helpless children. (Mainly so that they can then turn around and "blame" this pain on the absent parent.
When will the childs, and the loving non-alienator adults, pain or anguish be finally heard?

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• Parental Alienation Syndrome
• emotional child abuse
• joint custody
• co-parenting abuse
• parental abuse
• ex-spouse abuse
• divorce abuse
• alienation

[realexhousewifeoc]

It is extremely sad to know that either parent could do such a thing as to use children as pawns. This is NOT why we had children to begin with. To destroy them in the process when someone didn't get "their way" during the marriage? What ever happend to, "I love you enough to say Have a Wonderful Life. Now let's make sure our children's lives ARE WONDERFUL."  Watching this video; I see my own life and my children's idealistic little faces. May God Bless ALL of Our Souls and HEAL Our Wounds.

[lisahere123]

Dear realexhousewifeoc,Thank you for your kind and insightful words about my video. Sadly I am sorry to find another woman who is suffering this horrible ordeal. I feel it is the worse pain a mother can experience. My heart goes out to you. I find that this pain is hardly tolerable and is only somewhat endurable over time as we see that our children are growing up. I feel that we alienated mothers are some of the greatest humans on the planet to be able to overcome this awful trial. Hugs, Lisa

[4gr8funvideos]

Lisa...Bless you! You've created a visual that speaks louder than words. I'm also alienated from my sons - know first hand of the horrors and nightmares of PAS.

[lisahere123]

@4gr8funvideos

I'm sorry to hear that.... :(

[lonewolf1264]

When it comes down between a father and mother,a heroin addicted,drunken mother has more chance than the father,the courts,and the laws[that many women use,lying and maniplulating!],it's calledf misandry and before you women shoot your mouths off check the statistics,almost 40% of children are raised without a father!

[lisahere123]

@lonewolf1264

Sorry Lonewolf to hear you are soo bitter. I know your pain though. I do understand that many children are without their fathers and that is so sad...but remember this is NOT a gender thing.

Male or Female...alienation happens to the BEST of us...usually from the nasty controlling ex. It is a sad day for us and the kids...regardless if the Mother or the Father is no longer there...

[foryoutohear]

PAS DOES exist!!!Period!! What you women want is just ANOTHER way to get what you want based ONLY on YOUR word! I agree that if a woman says there is abuse it should be investigated but NOT taken as fact.MANY men lose children ,the love of their children ,money and sometimes their freedom based entirely on a woman's word. Absurd! I will fight to make sure that EVERYONE accepts the REALITY of PAS!

[Twinhit]

"Children need both parents and should always be encouraged to love both." I agree 100%

Also, I think that both parents should be encouraged to love each other.

Remember the child is a part of each parent.

To love the child in full is to love the other parent also.

That's my rule. Even if I am the only one abiding by it.

[realexhousewifeoc]

@lawker777 How old are you? There are plenty of kids, like yourself, who have endured this merciless pain, unfortunately, some took their own lives. However, we can ALL BAN TOGETHER and make a difference to show the world that PARENTAL ALIENATION DOES EXIST. Inbox me and perhaps you can join the many supporters and victims, who will become VICTORS, in bringing JUSTICE to this corrupt INjustice system. And STOP the ABUSIVE PERPETRATORS. Peace and Blessings to you!

[realexhousewifeoc]

@lawker777 I'm so sorry for your pain. I know my children have been used, manipulated and confused. It pains me beyond belief to know how hurt they have been when it didn't have to be this way. Had HE done what was fair and civil from the beginning my children would have never been toyed with mentally, nor have the irreprable emotional pain they endure. This was not fair what your parents did to you. My son and I both had to be homeless for some time as a result of my ex's vindictivness.

[realexhousewifeoc]

@lawker777 I'm so sorry for your pain. I know my children have been used, manipulated and confused. It pains me beyond belief to know how hurt they have been when it didn't have to be this way. Had HE done what was fair and civil from the beginning my children would have never been toyed with mentally, nor have the irreprable emotional pain they endure. This was not fair what your parents did to you. My son and I both had to be homeless for some time as a result of my ex's vindicivness.

[lawker777]

@realexhousewifeoc My mom and dad have been seperated for 10 years and have rarely talked to each other. My dad demands me to do various tasks. My mom just leads a sedentary life and depends on my dad for money. Ive encountered many emoitional outbreaks with her. It was scary when i was a kid, but now i never tolerate it. Ive had many aspirations, but most of them never happened. Ive tried to study my ass off by getting high SAT and enriched course marks, only to get kicked out of my own home.

[GoddessofPentacles]

WE NEED HELP IN GETTING MEDIA ATTENTION FOR THE INJUSTICE IN THE COURT SYSTEM AND CSE AGAINST NON-CUSTODIAL PARENTS WHO ARE GOING THROUGH PARENTAL ALIENATION AND BEING ACCUSED UNJUSTLY!! LOOK UP GUY RIGHTZ on FACEBOOK, who is fighting for his freedom and others in the same situation.

[russ5074]

I do believe that the rate of children being raised without a father is alot higher then a mere 40%