Tuna Talk: To Come Out or Not to Come out
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I consider myself lucky in this respect - my mom actually did go right out and join PFLAG and she joined me at the Prop8 protest last Saturday...
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Gah! I have no idea how to come out as a lesbian. I look like one of those stereotypical lesbians like lip piercing and flannel and all that jazz but I love it. A few people know that I'm gay but my parents seem to be oblivious to the hints I'm dropping. I'm scared to tell my mom the most because she will be so upset, there will be lots of crying, so that makes me not want to do it face to face, I wouldn't know what to do in that situation. I'd love to just be openly gay, I think I'd be so happ
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Arent some of these self explanatory?
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Get out of the closet....there a bowl of candy right outside the door
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It really shouldn't add any stress telling your family your gay...then again like 80% of my family is gay so I shouldnt talk but still. Their your family.
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lol marinate! lol Kissing Jessica Stein line. :)
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people start getting out of those closets
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Thanks.
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Im 15 and i not gonna come out i think. I mean i came out to some people and the guy in my class that i like knows im gay by the way i act but no one else needs to know but my Mam and Dad already know...they say weird stuff. Like me dad said to me something about "When you get older and move in with your girlfri....i mean whoever you move in with you will be okay" Or something and i straighten my hair and use motiuirizers n stuff so yeah... lol
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when i came out at school, everybody was shocked, but they were cool about it. I thought everybody would hate me(gay paranoia)but they didn't,so that wuz pretty fuckin sweeeeeeet.
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I came out on the phone but everyone all new they joked and said are u pregnant and i was like way off and then they said i know ur gay i was messing with you i was like woahh right on was a bigger deal for me then my ma i love it
hahaha dont come out over the phone unless you live in alaska and your family lives in sweden
polandcentral 3 years ago 2
that's the only way you can come out over the phone. if you fit that criteria :)
AskAJanything 3 years ago 3
thanks for this video, I have came out to just one person and have been thinking about telling my parents. i'm only home for the holidays until summer so i was glad to see this video so now i know to probably just wait until summer to come out to my family. thanks AJ!
xoxo
ches.
chesleykirk 3 years ago
ya, nobody wants to deal with that during the hoidays.... "wow mom thanks for the socks - by the way i'm a big homo!" --- no good.
AskAJanything 3 years ago 4
AJ you are brilliant! :D
I think I was probably one of those that emailed you....Lol!
Butt. I had a big talk with my PE teacher (I know...) and yeah she was like when coming out to friends, don't make it into a big deal, just like slip it into conversation or something. Because if you make it into a big deal, you'll get stressed and so will your friends. BECAUSE being gay isn't that big a deal. I've realised. Obviously when coming out to parents it's slightly different...
doug4eva 3 years ago
PE TEACHER? classic!
AskAJanything 3 years ago 2