Owen Williams - Nagging: Relationship Advice for Men and Women

http://www.relationshipexcellence.com/ Owen Williams, relationship expert and author of the book "The Relationship Revolution" answers an often asked question about "Nagging". For men and women both, this problem often plagues relationships and marriages. http://www.relationshipexcellence.com/

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[Kyjo34]

If I had the extra money I would just hire it done and forget him. I don't ask anything during the week because he works but the weekend I want him to do something on the list of things that need to be done. He usually just puts blinders on and enjoys his day while I am coming unglued. But when it is time to help him I am right there if he asks me. I would have to say that his lack of care for my interests is killing the love and respect. Pretty soon the women says forget nagging and leaves.

[Kyjo34]

My husband says I nag. I say if he would do one big thing for me a week their would be no nagging. He waits until he is sooooooo far behind and then tries to do a project like cleaning out the gutters and then he thinks I should be sooooo happy and not ask for anything for a long time. He sits in front of the tv like he really did something really special while I am mad because he doesn't see how far behind he is in things that need to be done. If I do it own my own he gets mad.

[qpkeith]

It's an excellent premise but over simplified. A relationship needs to acknowledge limitations rather than a license to nag. This approach is excellent when agreed upon by both parties. It can be a fail if only one subscribes. This is a basic transactional approach and very business like. If you remove the element of appreciation and are reduced to this simple transaction, it's not a relationship it's a feeding frenzy. IMO

[sharwayneg]

no matter what u do if u have a nagging woman she will never be pleased trust me ive got one !!!!!!!

[TheKbcolson]

Obviously you've never been with a nagging woman. You can't satisfy a nagging woman no matter what because she needs something to complain about or she'll make things tough for you so she can criticize you. I can understand making promises and keeping them but a person that nags doesn't care whether you keep promises or not.

[rmaddendesign]

This video is missing it's audio-

[sideroom86]

@jagajg

I don't think that's true...If you stick to doing what you say you are going to do then no shit will hit the fan...

[jagajg]

you can be 98% perfect. But when the sh8t hits the fan it is somehow the man's fault. Then the nagging begins. Better solution is get the F out and find someone who appreciates you.