The Independent Woman Dilemma

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Shay Your Date Diva shares why she feels "independent women" (of ALL races) have a hard time finding love.

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[Jaraviyana]

Okay so will it be okay to tell them that you need them? or is that a bad idea?

[lovein30days]

@Jaraviyana bad idea. You do not have to say it. You open your life to him and show him that he can fit in it IF he earns that.

[Teteritsa]

a man who needs to be needed simply suffers from inferiority complex.

[lovein30days]

You obviously know nothing about the inner workings of a man. Women need to feel love, appreciated, etc. Every human is driven by the same needs. When you understand a man's needs, you become irresistible to men.

SYDD

[SuavecitoBro2]

With those big-ass lips. Mess around, and we'll create a whole bunch of Al B Sure!'s and Quincy Browns running around here. LOL!

You know you are thick so stand up, babes. I'm a BBW lover.

Mess around and you're name would be GettinItInIn30Seconds. Sorry, I had a Dewege moment.

[lovein30days]

Dude, your comment was disrespectful and not cute! Even IF I wasnt married your statement would not be ok. Obviously you are new to my vids so thats why you made those ignorant comments. If BBW included size 4/5's them Im glad to be in the club. But for real this is a warning that I block disrespectful comments so dont leave anymore on any of my vids

Thank you

Shay Your Date Diva

[twim20]

let them know..that attitude is tired and played out...if u brag about being single u will STAY single..

[mrsmaul2010]

I agree, the one thing that irritates me is when women say they do not need a man to raise their kids, that is just a lie. I am sure many f single mothers wished they had a man to help them out.

One thing I did notice was, many of the women shouting:" I am so independent", are the most co dependent women emotionally. This is just what I have noticed.

[Jarreau24]

AWESOME VIDEO!! AND AS A MAN I CAN SAY THAT U ARE TELLING THE TRUE, GOD BLESS YOU!!

[ulrichstern100]

ok...... he's one of my best guy friends for like 3 years and i had a crush on him since...... we joke around from time to time and i'm trying to ask him out but when i try i just get all scared and shaky 9 u prob. know how it feels ) and just ask him another question like have you play this video game or not? WHAT SHOULD I DO???? ( i'm a girl by the way )

[MrTooniceofaguy]

you got it right on the money shay, go girl

[Jaraviyana]

@lovein30days Okay...thanks! your the best!

[sbonner39]

THANK GOD SOMEBODY IS ACCURATE I WILL BE MARRYING A CODEPENDANT WOMEN ALL U INDEPENDENT WOMEN WILL TURN INTO LESBIANS AND DIE A BITTER LONELY WOMAN SO LISTEN UP!

[str0wb3rry9irl]

as much as a woman might not want to admit it, they do need a man or generally speaking women need companionship. people need companionship to live.

the independent woman wants so much credit but girl, you're grown and as a single adult its your responsibility to have your own stuff. miss independent doesn't get a cookie for taking care of business. but if she wants to keep pushing men away go ahead because money cant hold you at night.

[ucomefindme]

GOOD LOOKING OUT...my fiance will see this in the morning!

[THEREALtrappajohn]

you are so on point babe.