Borderline Personality and Relationships - A Toxic Dance?

phoenixrisinglifecoaching.com - BPD Coach A.J. Mahari - Borderline Personality and Relationships are complicated for both those with BPD and their Loved Ones. Complicated by the very nature of BPD and also complicated by what is often a loved one's focus on rescue or trying to "fix" a person with BPD so that they can avoid their own personal growth and avoid looking at their own issues. We all have issues. Whether one has BPD or is the Loved One of someone with BPD, the toxic dynamics seen in the vast majority of these relationships, believe it or not, are not all one-sided at all. They are not all about the person with BPD all the time. Not to defend how people with BPD can treat others but it takes two to tango and also Loved Ones need to separate out the "borderline" behaviour from the person with BPD. Why do so many loved ones remain so invested in what are often toxic, unhealthy relationships that just aren't working?

Category:

Education

Tags:

• Borderline Personality
• A.J. Mahari
• BPD Coaching
• Life Coaching
• BPD and Codependency
• Toxic relationships

[GemyniMoodJuice]

@2012GreenGhost420 I hate comments like these. When someone tells others that a whole class of people are unlovable. This is what everyone says about us borderlines!! And just cause I or anyone who was victimized to the point of splitting our personalities does not mean we don't deserve to be loved!

[AntoineVisker]

Is it possible that a borderlinder and a asperger have a " good" relationship?

[ChicagoFusion]

"It will drive you INSANE! Put me through HELL"

You just perfectly demonstrated why borderlines are considered to be incurable. The borderline's addiction to blaming others and refusing to take responsibility for their own emotions, dysregulation and poor decision-making is exactly what keeps the BP stuck - attracting one toxic, co-dependent relationship after another.

[2012GreenGhost420]

a Tip for fellow borderlines.... Never EVER date someone who has Schizoid personality disorder.... why you ask?????? CAUSE IT FUCKING HURTS MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THE WORLD! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

It will drive you INSANE! Put me through HELL

Run run run far far far away from them TRUST ME ON THAT!

[smmeegal]

Thankyou.