It's Not Easy Being An ENFP
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THANK YOU! You hit the nail on the head of EXACTLY why a big part of my life is so hard being around people..............i feel like i put too many hats on and sometimes forget my own identity but then i get really tired of relating to others cos it drains me
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I've found the best way to use our emotions is to be open about them, and rely on them. A lot of ENFPs don't trust their intuition fully because of the abstractness. The more you trust your intuition though the more power you have as an ENFP. To truly unlock your power, trust what your intuition says even if it goes against logic and your present feelings, because experience will guess, but intuition knows!
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Goosebumps about the back in forth.
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As another enfp I feel your pain, but you coming out like this and explaining your feelings so clearly is very impressive. You are awsome!
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Thank you, thank you thank you! This was very enlightening. Specially the last part, about having to go in and out all of the time. That is exactly, 100% true. That's what made me think for some time I was an Introvert, since I need a lot of time alone to process and remain centered. Did you ever have the same issue? But I do get energized by being around people...if I spend a long time by myself I am tired all of the time. if I am out and about I feel my energy way up...
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we can record for 15 mintues now
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BRAVO...............
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5:11 - so true.
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interesting, im an infj male(introverted intuition feeling judging) i feel that since i am introverted that i am confused as weird, and socially awkward(which im not) by the extroverts. so i think that us Fs have the ability to find the sensetivity and seriousness of an event or scenario. its stupid how us introverts are bullied by the Es because we are "different".
Всей группе NF надо развивать рефлекс цели. Обязательно!
Психолог Карнаух Иван
197kart 1 year ago
@197kart Да, мы все должны. Я не говорю Россию сейчас, но спасибо.
hartpoet 1 year ago
I'm an ENFP and I swear I live in my thoughts. I guess you could call me a day dreamer. I can't stand mundane tasks or conversations. I think this has been really hard for me to fit in with the "normal" moms but when I find people I can be myself around, I thrive and am the life of the party. What type of career field are you in? It's so hard to stick with just one!
missmeliss1124 2 years ago
Yeah careers can be tricky. Hehehe. I'm only 20 and I've had such diverse occupations; mostly where creativity and warmth merge: non franchised coffee shops, child care, special education, art, language, teaching. I hate the manipulation of retail and being a cog in a wheel. I would kill OVER if I was an accountant or bank teller. Especially because I have a weakness with numbers. You can't have it all for every strength there is a weakness! (Smile) I wish you the best my dear. :)
hartpoet 2 years ago
Hey, I'm a male INFP, and the more I watch videos from people like yourselves, the more astonished I am both by our myriad similarities and our differences. One thing that's confusing for me, is that you say you are a party person, but you're also not one for social protocols and you're always in 'deep mode'. I must admit, I tend to think of partygoers as being somehow shallow, but it's great that people like you are out there.
Harkz0r 2 years ago
Yeah, never assume. Life is critical with assumers. INFPs can come off as being a little ditsy because they immediatly are showing a weak side by external communication. I met a girl I thought was so ridiculously mindless but b/c she was in my faith I forced myself to associate with her. We got to her bf's house and we started talking and she BLEW ME AWAY. She was an INFP and she had a gift for writing that I couldn't touch!!! I was humbled. The mind will find what it wants so search and see.
hartpoet 2 years ago