Blog 45 - Conflicts of interest

So the reason for the recent spate of personal blogs is to make sense of what comes next and my deteriorating mood, if I just skipped these blogs then you would see me filming and then the next blog you would see me filming whilst also in a state and you would be thinking.. why has he suddenly become like that?

This is a simple blog - no music, no cutaways, just a good ol fashioned conversation to camera... In life people can develop different needs and can start to grate and restrict each other. No-one is wrong, no-one is right - it just has to be resolved. Can we resolve it without taking devastating actions?

Category:

Film & Animation

Tags:

• video
• blog
• series
• documentary
• fighting
• relationships
• tired
• editing
• angry
• upset
• arguments
• love

[Alastair1112]

I'm curious to see whether the story of Gabby and Rob that we're being told is true or not. it seems like either its totally fake, or its actually happening, but we're being shown a real story in a professional, well edited fashion.

[thelonefilmmaker]

Alastair1112 - A lot of people are asking that! I can say that it is real - but I know you're not going to fully believe me because it's me that said it! So let me put it like this... This blog occured shortly before I vanished for months. Maybe it will make sense of why I stopped posting? And if this was a scripted story with a LG15 background - why would I have stopped posting loosing over half of my viewers?

I put it to you that I couldn't continue for genuine emotional reasons.. :-)

[deaconabstrakt]

All i can say rob is this, relationships always turn into a Division. Sooner or later someone will begin picking the scabs of selfishness. with gab, she is seeing it as you are all about you and she is just along for the ride.

you, you see it as progressing on a goal that you've already put your heart and soul into. The time you spend finishing work or taking on a new project is time she thinks should be spent with her or on making her happy.....

[thelonefilmmaker]

very true deaconabstrakt! Different people see things from a different reality. It's not about being right, it's about conflicts of interest..

[Jadurs]

Come on, what is this nonsense. This isn't why I watch these blogs. Rob are you really as pathetic as you appear or are you just trying to inject some emotion into this crap? It isn't working, it's dull, this started off as a a series of blogs of you making a film. What's it become? As for explaining why you're in a mood, don't be ridiculous! Give us some credit... we know things are tough for you and G, we've known for about 20 blogs. I want to see some filming!

[rrupple85]

I don't understand why Gab couldn't get a job. Get out of the house and serve little European people tea and coffee and stuff and make yourself 10 bucks to go see a movie with. She can't admit to her own faults and blames Rob for everything she's unhappy about. That make me sad because Rob is kind and diplomatic, passionate and creative. If you want $ and stability in your everyday schedule, than marry a business man and save the artists for those who can love them.

[cleric022684]

@rrupple85 good coment ;-)

[linleyshaw]

She's asking you to pay attention to her. If you don't feel you can then you'd better just let her go because if you really do care she'd be top of your list of priorities.

[TurnipTruckProd]

Boo Hoo Gabby. Get a job! You knew what you were signing up for. He told you.

[SuperAllenZ]

Don't give up, you are awesome!! :-) always look on the bright side of life

[spielme]

She's a bitch , that's what she is

LOL

[Ravlor88]

That was kinda hard for me to watch... I hate when two people fight like that... I really hope this movie will be great! Even tho I have never met you I feel you are a good friend that I can watch on youtube overcoming all obstacles. You are great! And I wish you joy!

[StuntPilotFilms]

How long is this film supposed to be? I understand that you are doing this all on your own while doing other jobs, but I don't understand why it's been taking so long. But I trust that the final product will be worth everything you put into it and more. DON'T GIVE UP, that goes for Gab too.