What healthy mates NEED from each other

To stay "satsfied," mates need to steadily fill almost 20 (!) relationship needs for each other. The US divorce epidemic shows how hard this is. Related YouTube videos offer resources for filling these universal needs well enough. For more perspective, see http://sfhelp.org/relate/mates/needs.htm and "Lesson 4" at sfhelp.org .

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[D Doiron]

Hi again, I transcribed this video to french for read every day, and for my wife. It is a very powerful relationship tool. Do you have such a video for a child's needs from his point of view? If not, do you think it would be useful? I am going through the course but just a quick list in the "I" format is very effective and touching. It is also a good reference list to check frequently. thank you

[gercacn]

I have an article, not a video: See sfhelp.org/parent/d_needs.htm.­

[D Doiron]

The problem is with older versions of Firefox from what I can tell. I opened it in my email notification stating a reply from you and it worked fine, then went to youtube and tried it again. Same problem. I then opened it in Chromium and it worked fine. So all is good. Some very good info in this video. If I could only get my wife to look at it. The important thing is to work on myself and have faith that all will fall into place eventually. Patience is a virtue I hear. Co-dependency is hard.

[gercacn]

A core issue is whether either of you mates is a "Grown Wounded Child" (GWC) sfhelp.org/gwc.gwc.htm.

[D Doiron]

This video quits after a few minutes for some reason. Oh wait, I know why... because I could really use the information at this time. That must be why.

[gercacn]

It seems rto play to copletion - ? See the link in the video description for more detail on marital needs.