You Need to Take from a Man

Mark Gungor answers your questions! Women are givers, men are takers. If a woman wants something from a man, she needs to take it, not expect him to give it to her without prompting. Women often think that "if he really loved me, I wouldn't have to ask," an idealistic concept that doesn't hold up.

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[CarMoves]

@msquestionmark - he means that a man won't guess what you need. If you want a hug, walk over to him and say, "hey, honey I need a hug".

Women control sex, and men control romance. When a guy wants sex, he comes to get it, he doesn't wait for the woman. Woman have to be the same way. If you want affection, come get it.

[corazoncito77]

i think he means that, in your example, if a woman needs affection, she can't just let the man "guess it". He won't. She'll have to tell him that she needs some. I've tried it with my man, and indeed, he can't guess what you want in that particuliar moment, but he is really happy to help when you tell him what you want or need from him. this is my point of view.

[shatdog1]

Mangyna is a term that was never so appropriate for you. Women should not be comfortable with the idea of taking from a man and if she does- she should be ready to reciprocate with something equally as valuable; such as: fidelity, honesty, truth, reasonableness and a willingness to let her man be the boss- after all, he is the one bestowed with the obligation as "provider". These days, too many women do not understand this concept and are rebellious against it. Your preaching is antiquated...

[shatdog1]

You, sir, are dilluded. Your ideas are based on the assumption that women are equally as willing to return the favors of men in ways that they are more equipped to do so. -This is simply not the case anymore- due to the changes brought about by feminism. Women no longer see any need to reciprocate with a man for any reason. The government is their new husband- providing all that they need. Men are shut out of their childrens' lives while paying child support- and you preach this? I say Nay

[smooveau]

@yalf111 You're a spoiled cunt. Nuff said.

[monjiaitaly]

@dan82tl if you allow yourself to be taken by a woman, then you need to exam your own intentions.

[BryanTheDoomBringer]

this is true but i am smarter than your average guy i give affection right before i got sex lol.

like i used to approach my ex and hug her from the back then kiss her and give her compliments blah blah and then i had sex...simple...how hard is it to have sex...

[Cherubaby]

THANK GOD I'M SINGLE!

[sova71000]

@scootkh ohh wait a minut,,,,U took a woman 4 lunch thn u didnt pay 4 her meal,,,,,,,,,n thn u were expectin her 2 call ya,,,,,,,,,,,,ohh comee onnnn???????

[scootkh]

Women are LEECHES and VAMPIRES....they are not 'GIVERS' all they think about is how to manipulate a guy into 'giving' her what she wants. Last chick I met for lunch actually TWITCHED when I said, 'separate checks please'...never heard from her again.

[joystay]

The context is about godly christian wives who are really often the giver... not any women in general/ women of the world. 

[dan82tl]

what is he talking about?! is he on drugs, woman are takers men are givers .maybe he lives on mars