Why I Feel That No Limits Slavery Does Not Exist

www.submissiveguide.com - lunaKM gives her interpretation of what no limits slavery is and why it doesn't really exist.

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[love9boy]

my Master tells me to have no limits and if i say no to Him then we are finished. So far he has done a few things to me that i don't like. How can i get him to understand my perspective? i have tried, but he won't listen. He says He doesn't care about His property's thoughts or feelings. He says i exist to serve or i cease to exist. What can i do? i love Master very much, but His demands and commands are designed to please Him not me.

[subguide]

@love9boy If you are not happy in your role and your relationship you do not need to put up with it. If he won't listen to your own needs and desires and won't continue to negotiate the relationship I see a warning flag waving overhead. Try to get him to talk without the roles, as partners in a relationship and see if you can lay things out for him. If not, I fear this relationship is destined to fail.

[SkelanimalKitteh]

Everyone has certain limits. I would allow my Master to drag me around by my hair all day, but if he ever cut me without my consent, I'd hurt him. My Master does push my boundaries, but he'd never cross a line.

[GreenRad2012]

@sirspank77: genius! thank you!

[GreenRad2012]

@love9boy : this has RED FLAG written all over it. If you are not on FetLife, I strongly suggest that you go on & join groups & ask about this. I personally, would never again be involved with a Dominant who does not honor my limits, EVER. Did that and it was a *nightmare.* The bigger issue is, of course, that every Dominant worth Her/His salt realizes that they actually *need* their submissive as much as you need them.. & they respect the relationship as such, as an amazing dance of yin/Yang.

[bringthefunin]

yes i agree its the dominate that also has limits of what  there willing to do to you.

i believe the fun is in pushing the limits it becomes a bonding experience.

[awhitecloud1]

I love it and it is right on. Thank you for saying so out loud, it is a joy to have other views on limits.

[sirspank77]

As Midori stated in one of her classes, when you hear "I've no limits" you should grin, rub your hands and say, with a glint in your eyes, "Oh goodie, let me take out my butcher knife. Which is your dominant arm? I'll try to spare it, if I can..."

That's usually enough but you can add gory details at will, until the sub understand your hint.

[phizgp]

Very well stated post!

"No Limits" makes me laugh, every time I hear someone say it.