Give her space! - Don't be needy! - FOR MEN

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Give her space - Dont be needy! - Neediness dead end - Insecurity in guys - Pressure at the wrong time - Life beyond your couple - Respect and freedom - Jealousy and control - Neediness adn clinginess

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[556386]

i have question me and my girlfriend are giving eachother space my gf wanted it and i was kool about it and i gave now i think is tht a good sign or bad sign she said only for few days plz help me thnks

[vitalcoaching]

@556386 nothing to worry about for now - what's important is that you don't asked her to justify herself or pressured her to see you every day... You'll have to wait for a few days and when you meet again, be super confident as if nothing happened. If you project insecurities on her, that's she she wants to run away from you

[BlazepopFTW]

Please help me and tell me something.... I am together with this girl and sometimes she doesn't respond to my cell phone messages... SHould i call her send more messages or just w8 for her to do something? And one more thing... I saw my girl saying: " Hey :D <3 " to another boy on an internett page and i wonder... could she just mean it friendly or does she like him? Im easly jealous so please help me and im afraid that she is cheating on me... :(

[vitalcoaching]

@BlazepopFTW excellent questions! If she's not answering a text? wait my friend! wait! If you already sent her a text and she's not responding wait for her to initiate contact.

What if she says Hi to another boy? she can say hi to whoever she wants. You don't own her (I know... I am direct with you but you need to her that now ;))

Saying "Hi!" to someone else is NOT cheating, ok? got that? - good luck

[navyseal100]

My wife said she LIKES my clinginess!

[vitalcoaching]

... for now...

[Silvertrine]

Heaven forbid a man might be incomplete and need a little boosting up and nurturing. That doesnt fit in with the program of constant need fufillment that women have been trained to expect these days.

[allanfrnch]

Hi there.Its a about my recent bad date. Date went great and we liked each other. She is kind of lonely type. I called her after the date, no reply so I called her again. Similar thing happened again after few days. Then her birthday came I wanted to wish her, called her no reply. I was annoyed of no reply.I deleted her from FB. Recently I happened to talk to her she is so mad becoz I deleted her and said don't want to see me again. She also said that my call freaked me. What to do? Thank you

[Kstroman2011]

cont... I feel like I am losing the few friends that I do have cause when they invite me to things I don't go to try and keep peace in my own home. I really care about him like I said before and I know that nice guys are really hard to come by in this day and age. I just need input from a males perspective on how to handle this... Thank you in advance.

[Kstroman2011]

He says cause he doesn't have many friends and he was always home before is the reason.I tell him that is an excuse. I told him find something that you enjoy and build from that. I keep telling him that it is He, She, and We time in a healthy relationship and all he says is that when his mom or is other family members are in a relationship that isn't the case when I know otherwise cause they have told me different.

[Kstroman2011]

cont. He makes comments saying that "If I wasn't paying you attention then you would be upset or that I want to spend time with him on my terms." That isn't the case. We do live together and we both have children from previous relationships and when I try to point out to him that when he has something to do he goes and does it and there is no issue on my end but when its the other way around he gets a little whiny. I really don't do well with that.

[Kstroman2011]

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. I care about him very much but I do feel that he is too dependent on me in the relationship. He is younger than I am by about 5 years but when I say that I am about to go somewhere( whether it is to take care of something or to have brunch with a friend) his attitude changes. I have told him about it many times and how it makes me feel but he always gets upset and takes it the wrong way.

[ywillburn]

DONT PLAY GAMES !!!!! BE UPFRONT WITH YOUR INTENTIONS !!!! IF YOU HAVE TO PLAY THESE SILLY MIND GAMES THEN YOU REALLY WONT HAVE A HEALTHY BASE TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH !!!!!! GAMES DO NOT WORK LONG TERM !!! GAMES ONLY WORK FOR PLAYERS !!!! THAT IS THE BEST ADVICE YOU WILL GET ANYWHERE !!!!!

[mythmanjay]

In other words, decide together what you both love. (i.e. what is Lord God?), and then you both know who you both love ... or something