NO-PANTS SUNDAY [Feb. 21, 2010]

QUESTION: What are your thoughts on "heteroflexible" people?

Yup, no pants (as if the sound of my hand slapping on my bare thigh weren't enough of a giveaway).

So this week's questions was inspired partly by Beks' question earlier in the week, and also by an incident i witnessed tonight at the bar: straight dude (married with three kids) was hanging out with his gay buddies at the gay bar. They're just talking and drinking, but later on....FULL ON MAKING OUT WITH TONGUE. Straight dude made out with every guy in his group. What's up with that? Closeted? Bi? Heteroflexible? Give me your thoughts.

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• 7sog
• noholzba
• gay
• asian
• tokyo
• heteroflexible
• party-lesbian

[KneebarBuffet]

US of fuckn A 4 the WIN!!!

[noholzba]

@ThePricanBouncer yes. =(

[noholzba]

@masterbearar not my first choice for bar-wear, but i went straight after work!

[noholzba]

@ShinnoIX omg I read her blog too!! wish i'd discovered it in time for my trip to taiwan two years ago...

well since coming to tokyo my employment situation has always been rocky...unlike the golden days of kyoto. so yeah, my parents help me out for now =/

[noholzba]

@ndevelopment heh, thanks. it's what i wore to work! well, i don't wear the hat when i'm teaching, of course--but suit and tie all the way!

[noholzba]

@giygas666 yeah i think your opinion pretty much echoes my own. full disclosure is the way to go!

[giygas666]

I think heteroflexible's defnitely the word. I've been known to have some homoflexible inclinations, so why can't it be the other way around, ne?

But there's a difference between being honest and forthright about wanting to test the "forbidden fruit" on one hand, and someone on the "down low" using others as guinea pigs for the their own experimentation. Especially people in supposedly monogamous relationships; they just hurt themselves and others (I've been in that situation and it sucks).

[ndevelopment]

cute outfit..you look like a cute school boy (of age of course) :) i'm american and i know we can be rude but studies have shown the french are #1 as the most annoying as far as tourism goes. luv their beautiful language and architecture but they need to work on their behavior!

[ShinnoIX]

i too have been surfing for food, but in Taipei rather than Tokyo. i'm obsessed with the reviews of hugrygirltaipei.

in my experience, str8 on gay action always ends with someone crying.

so, your parents support some of your Tokyo living? interesting, but i suppose necessary with the job market there.

[tamayn]

Taking out contacts scares me, every time. It's just something I love to watch, but it grosses me out. It's like surgery videos on TLC. You're putting your fingers on your eye!

The heteroflexible thing goes back to something I discussed with my brother a long time ago, which we affectionately termed the sliding scale of homosexuality. It's just an adventure. As long as they are honest with themselves and with people they date, I see no issue with it.