Reasons why women cause drama and what to do about it!

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I'm sure all of you have experienced a woman being dramatic. I know how scary and confusing this must be for someone who doesn't know exactly how to handle this.

I will show you the two core factors which contribute to a woman engaging in dramatic behavior. This can include: picking fights, nagging, attempting to control you, being constantly moody and upset, being withdrawn, getting upset over the smallest things, acting needy, clingy, needy or desperate, wanting you attention all the time, or acting like a child.

So, what happened to this: cool, fun, easy going, and confident chick you originally met?

Well the good news is that she is not gone forever, although she may be temporarily unavailable unless you can find ways to bring her back.

Let's first start with the two core reasons why she is acting dramatic.

1) She is bored - A woman needs to experience a whole breadth of emotions, from sadness to happiness. If you can coax her to express and experience these in a safe way, she will learn to trust you and therefore more able to open to you.

2) She is feeling insecure about something. Women experience insecurity about anything and everything! Usually it will be in the form of a threat to her sense of self, identity, or relationship with you. If you can restore her security then you can minimize her drama.

Here are the 3 ways you can minimize drama in the future

1) Acknowledge and recognise when she is not herself.

2) Be present and encourage her to express whatever emotions she feels.

3) Proactively encourage her to express her emotions on a daily basis to empty out her "negative emotional bucket", so she won't feel the need to engage in dramatic behavior.

Enjoy!

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  • When you can do this, you are rewarded with more intimacy, sex and enjoyment. So in that way everybody wins.

    It’s not hard work. It’s just “different work” to what you may have been doing in the past.

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  • @khemistry101: I feel this video was necessary because men do have many experiences of woman being dramatic. I wish it wasn't that way, but about 99% of women engage in this behavior. Now, we can argue about whether or not a woman should or shouldn’t be dramatic …

    OR

    I can simply give you an advantage by helping you to understand what creates this behavior & what you can do to minimize it ....

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  • And this is why I don't see the appeal of Relationships. Men don't get anything out of a relationship except sex, which they can easily get without getting in a relationship. While women get a therpist, someone to dump all their drama on, someone they can show off to their frenemies and family etc., someone to buy them stuff, someone to take them places. Call me crazy but the Price is Not Right, Bob.

  • Good God.

    No wonder men and women have such difficulty getting along.

    HAF, if want you say is true, then most men would be better off not marrying or dating long term. Its just TOO much work for the average man to keep a woman happy with the relationship.

    Day-to-day life is complicated enough!

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  • @jennelli17

    my religion is the ladies. i just hide behind indian and chinese religions because i am shy to stand up against sexist men!

    sexist men are going to suffer in hell for eternity for all of their wrong doings against the ladies!

  • you punch her in the throat, tell her to STFU

  • You are quite intelligent for a you tube girl!

  • Women are complicated beings and Men are simple beings; period.

  • great video! and you convinced me that from now on its going to be like this-.

    Step 1: give money

    Step 2: insert penis

  • @clorking She got another man

  • fuck.. women are fucking crazy.

  • Mansuka Well said. This girl is lovely...but she just confirms my beliefs about women. Beyonce constantly singing about self assured, independent women...why then can't they look after their emotional states??

  • Well said, JSkcafe Personal entertainer...it.might be good for her...but it's emotionally draining for us...you keep saying...that's just the way it is...as usual...it's all about pampering her ego. They should take care of their own self esteem issues. Especially as they are never there for us, when we really need them. The bottom line...women are self obsessed and selfish. Nothing i have seen, changes this belief!

  • thank you for being honest

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