Dating Woes
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Hi Mindy,
Pof is full of bottom dwellers, Match can be good, but we have to be open minded. Nobody is a Prince! They are all taken. I read this great book, Boundaries in Dating.
Also in asking men what they like...easy going, low maintenance, white tee shirt tight jenas, and high heels. Ya, sure. lol
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you are cute , When I was on pof there was a lot of girls , on there , that had like 5 kids and theyre profile said they wouldnt date a guy who smoked, what they dont relize is who wants to adopt five kids? give me a smoke anyday !!!
and we can contemplate your five kids hahah
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POF SUCKS. Noone really tries on there.
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Here's some good advice - don't go on pics. Go on how you perceive the person when you meet them - a person can look different in person than online - they can be ugly in photos but gorgeous to YOU in person - perception is not just based on what's actually there, but how our brain perceives it - that's a fact from psychology coming from someone who has a bachelor's degree in psychology from Grant Macewan University in Canada. So...keep searching you go based on that "spark".
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Good example of womens radical pickyness.
The top 50% of women in terms of overall desirability want the top 18% of men in overall desirability.
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Most of the women I met on that site turned out to be convicted felons, child abusers, drug addicts, or married.
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hey Mindy...isnt it funny to watch back almost a year ago and see where you were then and were you are NOW......things happen for a reason...Things have been crazy here but I know you are doing fine and HAPPY.....I will write an email to you soon I promise.....
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dont settle dear. you know what you like and dont like. you dont need three days to be convinced.
Glad to hear that you have joined a few sights. Another way to meet men is to become active in a hobby or something that you are really passionate about. You may find a wonderful person that has the same interests, when you least expect it..and most of all...stay busy....very busy......and you are a GORGEOUS GAL....so stay positive and he will find you....eliza
elizaADORESmakeup 3 years ago
My hobby that I am passionate about is showing dogs, and all the single men in that hobby are gay! ha ha ha! If I were any busier I wouldn't have time to sleep! Thanks Liza!
mindylcarter 3 years ago
Good on ya for hanging in there. God how I HATE dating!!!! I keep waiting for my Prince to show up at my door, I don't want to put any effort into it. I'm too tired and jaded. LOL. I sure hope you find who you're looking for.. Keep us updated and on any new sites you find.
PS, I have been on Plentyoffish..and found nothing but *ew* there for my area..lol
Good luck to you!
LindaW1956 3 years ago
I have found some pretty attractive men in my area, and for sure lots of loosers and a few wierdos thrown in!
mindylcarter 3 years ago
I think the 3 dates rule is too many dates. Just let it happen and don't force it. Mr Right WILL come along. Stay positive and keep smiling!
tivaevae 3 years ago
I don't know how many "meet for a drink" dates I have to go on to find him, surely he's getting close!
mindylcarter 3 years ago