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It's common for ladies to wonder what a person is looking for when considering a relationship. I may not be able to speak for all men on this subject, but It looks like there is a common myth that must be addressed when it comes to what men want. Most girls seem to believe that the physical attraction is all that matters to us. It mayonly be importantto a shallow man, but most men like myself try to find something more.

Initially, I take note of the waya woman carries herself when we meet. Is she polite, does she have friendly energy? I am immediately turned off if a woman is overly aggressive. I understand that some women work in certain fields where they need to compete with other men, so they must tap into their masculine energy to survive in that corporate world, but when I am out on a date with a woman, I'm not attempting to compete with her. I'm simply there to get to know her and to take pleasure in the moment.
For me, good conversation is a must. If you're able to engage me into a stimulating conversation and keep my attention that is a big plus. I am very conscious, so I notice if you are sincere enough to keep eye contact, while we speak. If you are not able to look me in the eyes during our conversation, I will feel as if you have something to hide and that you're not being honest with me, and honesty is what men really want

I also love when a woman projects an energy that expresses that she is comfortable in her own skin, being just who she is. If a woman loves herself, it let's me know that she will have the ability to openly share her love with me. Whenever you love yourself, there isn't any need for you to be obsessive or jealous. Therefore, I factor in that such a woman, will be less prone to go "Fatal Attraction" on me.

With all of this being said, there still has to be a physical attraction. I would defiantly be untruthful if I said other wise, but for me, there has to be more. I have dated stunning models that could not attract me beyond their physical appearance. I'd rather be in the company of a lady I find adorable, than a model type who has no engaging character. If I choose to be in any relationship with a woman, without a doubt it's because, I will be interested in all of her, not just one aspect of her.

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[BEred2testify]

Al the guy at the end said it best..."insecurities will drive a man crazy and he will end up leaving you woman. Now, i have a question? Is it possible for a man to hold out on sex untill marriage, and not masturbate. or for those holding to the one woman he wants to marry, why is he masturbating?

[notsocommonshow]

@BEred2testify I think it is possible for a man to hold out on having sex until marriage, but he will masturbate. A man will either not have sex and masturbate or have sex AND masturbate. The reason why a married man still masturbates is because a man's sex drive is very powerful. We think about sex all of the time. Sometimes you just need to release on your own spontaneously. It doesn't have to be because he's not attracted to his wife anymore. It's nothing personal.

[DeannDmere]

Wow! So after all the great comments on how "Insightful" you men are, all of you agreed in unison that if the woman wasn't "Good in bed" then you would be on to the next one!.hahah!! Please. You could have saved 7:38 minutes and told us that tidbit in 1!. It all stems down to sex and what cooking you all a meal??! Whatever! And save that ish about how you all prefer "Brains over Beauty" The lies can end at any time now, for i know that is NOT the truth! Don't send me another post on this please.

[notsocommonshow]

@DeannDmere Thanks for checking out our clip. I think there is a misunderstanding. What we mean is if there is no sexual chemistry between two people the relationship is bound to suffer. Some people are just not sexually compatible. It is not about an individuals sexual skill that determines sexual compatibility between to lovers.

[DeannDmere]

@notsocommonshow If there is chemistry in every other aspect of the relationship, I believe the man should be open to working on developing better chemistry with his mate in the bedroom. If she can stimulate you mentally as you all proclaimed to value so much over her beauty then, the lack of sparks in the bedroom should only be a small vessel. You men would be surprised as to how many women stick it out, with you all, when some are only mediocre at best in bed! The connection should be deeper..

[notsocommonshow]

@DeannDmere For men physical chemistry is the initial attraction. For you to keep a man there has to be substance for him to stay. Chemistry whether physical or mental is either there or it isn't. You have to have both for the relationship to work. No woman should stay in a relationship if she is not getting what she needs. If she stays, that was her choice to continue suffering and it causes a woman to resent her man.

[stillettopumps86]

please a majority of men will say one thing on camera, in front of others, etc. but the real ones will actually DO what they say. Not only that, a majority of men go for women based on looks because Ive seen PLENTY of men go for chicks based solely on they ass and not give a fuck about the bitch making 90gs or more a year. All bullshit a bunch of men are all fuckin talk. BLAH BLAH WAH WAHH!!! Don' heard it all before!!

[octaviaty2006]

OMG all is so true and crazy tho a lot of women have no clue it all. But the same can be said about men having no clue what women really want. I think we all need to sit down with our mates and have a serious talk about these things.

[quishia]

To Mr. Donnie Leapheart: I appreciate your feedback about not having that spark with the opposite sex when you dont have things in common. It makes sense to me now why this certain person I was talking to is withdrawing from me because we really dont have nothing in common and I think maybe we bore eachother because we dont have no similarities. Two were different levels, I have that on the grind mentality verses he is just letting the days go by. Im out to get what i want and nothing less.

[quishia]

What different men want varies but what they all have in common is that they want someone to be supportive, loyal, and love them. For examples, he might had said i have basketball game today and you dont have to come if you dont want to; but a smart women would show up because it will show him you care and you want to be apart of what he is doing that he enjoys; thats being supportive. Loyality is having his back whether right or wrong and love is love. Love can be sex, appreciation, and etc.

[14malarkey]

That's bs I'm with a man initially because I'm attracted to him. If he is boring and stupid I'm out after that.

[k9134]

i loved this got a lot of information very interesting.

[katjackson34]

Very interresting and enlighting.

[JHeights83rd]

@BEred2testify When we cum, its 4 billion sperm coming out. But every 36 hours we create 4 billion. So you know that means... it has to go somewhere, when you blow up a balloon you can only fill it so much. If not the pressure builds up... Thats why virgins when they get to like 20 & still a virgin, they start to become creepy. If you don't masturbate then your body takes it; ie. a nocturnal emission, u have a wetdream about some girl, & u wake up ur bed full of cum.

[apocalypse105]

the question what men really want isnt to answer because every man is different...

The question says that we all have the same thoughts and history thought us that that isnt... each man has other likes or dislikes just be your self but be your confidence self...

[TheBlackTinkerBell]

are this guys using tinychat?