Once a cheater, always a cheater?

My thoughts on cheaters
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[OnlyOneFantasy]

Promove69, you called me a bitch and said i should "focus on keeping my legs open" how the hell is that not disrespectful? I have no problem with others disagreeing with what I say, but theres a difference between disagreeing and being a disrespectful jerk.

[goodfellabeats]

Mistake or no mistake, if I get cheated on, I'm dumping her no questions asked. Heat of the moment my ass...

[NegroDeSangue]

1st: There is no such thing as cheating and the entire idea behind it is utter bullshit!

2nd: Humans are not, and were never hard wired to be monogamous. (research!)

3rd: If you are not married, there is no infidelity. Boyfriend Girlfriend = playing around

4th: Abstinence, from your mate is also a form of infidelity. (common in marriage!)

5th: Monogamy is a practiced behavior. If you step out 10 times in 10 years, you are good at monogamy!

[MsLatifa26]

I do agree there is something as a serial cheater and the ones who cheat bec the opportunity is there and they think they can get away with it at that moment. Now if a man would cheat on me I would break up with him, one time cheating is too many. Also he could carry around STD and that is really the scary part, as a woman and human been I would like to have children some day and have a long healthy life and I would not stay with a man who is prepared to destroy it for few minutes of pleasure

[SpearofDestiny0]

@Thesexy1pr1nce - you are correct. The alpha male, the sexy masculine "jerk" arouses a woman's sex drive, while the softer, less sexy, less masculine male arouses her emotional trust. Women subconsciously sense "strength" in the DNA/Sperm of the "jerk", while they sense "love/protection" from the weaker, softer, kinder man. Men and Women are driven by biological forces they don't understand, and that's why we suffer needlessly.

[SpearofDestiny0]

...continued....

Personally, I can only see cheating as immoral because of the fact that it is deception and it carries of risk of transferring STD's. Otherwise, if honest discussion and safe sex is practiced, there doesn't have to be any deception. Sexual Monogamy is a Disney Fantasy, and women are more prone to it due to their maternal natures. You don't have to take my word for it. The scientific research is available all over the place.

[SpearofDestiny0]

I have to agree and disagree at the same time. Men, biologically, are not monogamous. It is ingrained in our DNA to spread our seed via intense sexual urge. In order for most men to be successful at monogamy, they have to literally suppress their sexual nature via fear of losing the woman (or man) they love. Monogamy does not equal morality. Lying and deception is immorality, but the sexual acts themselves are not.

[chicadelrey]

You give AWESOME ADVICE!



[Thesexy1pr1nce]

No your place Girl men will lead and women will always follow .

Women = Wo +unto = men

Men is single . Wo +men = you need us = men

[Thesexy1pr1nce]

And most women feel this way bec they think that the bad guy has more power then the good guy / shy guy / nice guy . which women perceive the bad guy to possesses more of these alpha traits than the type of guys I remarked above . Which is actually wrong . Which I can prove . But yeah