My Coming Out Story

If you need some encouragement, I have my updated It Gets Better video! : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PNkvnXQy3ac

1. I talk a lot with my hands.
2. Sorry for the random crackling sounds at a couple parts - completely my webcam's fault!
3. I really talk a lot with my hands.
4. I fail at time consistency if you pay attention. I was out as bi from early October until mid November, when I came out as gay. So I have been out for almost 7 months now.

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[FurkanKhan100]

this story is wierd. howcome u werent sure?

[RevelationWriter]

@FurkanKhan100 It just never seemed apparent to me. I chased after girls. I had dreams about girls. I never looked at a guy and found him attractive or anything like that. I would look at girls and feel that I liked them. Then it just sort of changed junior year.

[NatalieRae14]

Just out of curiosity, what's the most difficult thing about it for you now? You're not being attacked, you got over the 'wife and kids' thing, and people seem okay with it. Is it just still coming to terms with this huge change? I can't even really imagine having to adjust to that after thinking that I'm attracted to guys my entire life. Just near the end, when you said you weren't happy everyday about it, it made me wonder.

[RevelationWriter]

@NatalieRae14 Well at the time I filmed this video, I was still coming to terms with it mostly. I was still reflecting on how it would affect my life when I was older. Now I feel I've grown extremely confident in who I am and have taken a much more embracing approach to my life.

[antonio01lima]

@wasupsukas Don't tell your parents, even when you become 18. Tell them only when you are no longer living with them, so they cannot oppress you with their religous bla bla bla. Get your fianacial independance, first. Then, you can say, to hell with the opressors. My advice to you.

[CrazyDownAssChicks]

Dude, you'ree hot. Lmfaoo.

[Pedro2005100]

I loved your hair!

[100yuyan]

can i see that guy's picture?you know,you are hot and you think that guy is more attractive than you.i dont know, i just want to see how he look like.

[03333334050]

love you guy............

[marlls1989]

The stereotype is something disturbingly damaging.

Both to ourselves, creating fear to accept ourselves and having to fit in that stereotype and to our image...

[tictactongue]

GORE JUSSS ><

[FurkanKhan100]

@Neil070 from ur name i m guessing u r indian? then ur parents must have been like my parents?

[Neil070]

Things may seem difficult for gay people, but are a heck of a lot easier than in my day, 3 or 4 decades ago! Felt I had to lie to my best friends and family(and myself), like I was carrying an immense millstone. Good luck to you, enjoy your life!

[Neil070]

@FurkanKhan100 Took me till I was 40 to convince myself!! Reason is, it is "not normal", and none of us want to feel "not normal", so we convince ourselves we are straight, even though we look at guys. I constructed an "alter ego" in my head, where I wa straight, but watching films or TV, I'd be checking out the male lead! Had an "experience" one drunken night at 19, spent next 20 years trying to "reform" myself, I think. Death of my parents was the turning point, I think.