How to Improve Self Esteem : Fear of Failure & Improving Low Self Esteem

what if u fail at failing does that make u a failure at failing

Failure can be deeply de-motivating, but something that always cheers me up is the thought that I'm learning from mistakes -- mine and other people's. In fact, studies have shown that highly successful people generally share a common trait, which is that they've all failed repeatedly in the past, and have learned enough from their mistakes to overcome them the next time around. It's our reaction to failure which makes us stronger, not the failure which makes us weaker.

What about a lifetime if fail?

you aRE A FAILURE

Right! But my life is full of failures due to bad luck. Trust me. I won't give up, but the incidents of my life are amazing...Things always happens in my path... I have no idea way? Marlen Arguedas-

i really don't feel like living anymore

what if the person you are is the reason why you failed???

Vieweredeyes, even then,it's ok. I think that the mistake to not TRY AGAIN because you failed,is bigger than failing because of the person you are.
It seems like we have to accept our imperfections,but still trying new things and new ways to get what we want.

but yes I agree,the video does not say what to do when oneself is the cause of the failure

in many ways i am a lot like u. like u i tend to fail at a lot of things i am extremly shy which led to me losing a lot of friends n i thought that i was ugly n wortless. but then i desided to change n act a bit more like my self n i began to feel better about myself i had began to get my social life back n i don't think i am ugly anymore. i still have a bit of a problem when it comes to failing to do something right but i think that i fail only bc i give u before i really try so lets both try.