Men's greatest source of insecurity with women

This videos discuss one of the biggest sources of men's insecurity when it comes to approaching and meeting women.

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[Wmagic1990]

@superprincess this is advice for men, I'm sure, superprincess, that you could find a female speaker saying similar things about abusive men (stay away waste of time) I.E, abused women have crystalised mindsets that attract them to abusive men, that we (non-abusive men) shouldn't ruin ourselves, feeling riddled with guilt, when in fact the girl needs to sort out her emotional issues first before entering the dating scene, and we shouldn't have to go down with them.

[bgiv2010]

@SuperPrincess0411 I think what he's saying is that women who are hurt to the point of automatic distrust of men (or those who seem to be) may not be the best person to date. Especially for those of us who aren't that good at approaching and interacting with women to begin with. He's not saying they don't deserve attention. He's saying we (awkward/unconfident men) should avoid them for the sake of both of our respective mental health issues.

[TableWolfMusic]

He is right that a man should keep away from a woman who "acts like she is doing you a favor by talking to you". Of course, not all women who have been treated badly do that. And I'd like to add that not all guys who have been treated badly do that either. If somebody has been treated badly and does not trust the risk posed, exacerbated by the conditions of society (e.g. like rape laws or family laws etc) then, if they choose to be single and avoid any sex or relationships, I respect that logic.

[seekperfection]

Where can you meet woman that are genuine?

[Quartrez]

@Errol246 Alright, you go and waste your life trying to convince such a woman that good guys exist... It's like trying to convince someone who thinks the Earth is flat that the Earth is round...

[mike12jrw1111113]

@thoooooorpin69 The traumatized girls he's talking about don't know what they want, they can be hot and cold. One second everything's clicking and they show interest, the next they get annoyed with you. And yes they make you feel guilty for being interested in them and being interested in sex from them because they assume sex is all you want from them. As if you're some sex hungry dog "like all men".

[mike12jrw1111113]

@thoooooorpin69 Good example. Your snooty, angry attitude from your past experiences with guys bothering you is making you act bitchy on here. And you're angrily telling us guys on here to "get a hint" as if we're all just like the guys that bother you, and we need this advice from you, when in reality most guys with sense avoid girls with unapproachable attitudes. It'd make more sense if you went to a video with douche bags filled in the comment section and said this.

[LTBL88]

@jment34 "I've only ever gone out with bad men because of my daddy issues and ignored all the good ones, therefore all men are bad"

[RobAzula]

Amen, brother.

[dreamcore]

@TheIntunecatu I would guess the argument may be that that fear is what sprouts from feeling guilty felt in an environment where men may be punished.

[lawshorizon]

Innocent until proven guilty. Something to think about both ways. But one thing’s for sure – if she spends the night rejecting your advances and complaining about her ex-boyfriend(s) then run away.