What I am basically trying to say in the 10 seconds is that the people who try to put you down are the people who do not have confidence in themselves. They are trying to make you feel worse so that they can put themselves on a pedestal above you, in a controlling manner. What you need to do is to have the confidence and self belief in yourself to show them that you are success and won't fall prey to their put downs...
The allure of being a hater is hard for some to resist. I tried it once and found that a single hateful comment gets several comments within MINUTES whereas positive ones.....maybe never.
virgilvotaw 4 years ago
What your trying to say here is right....I read your whole description and it is true....people use put-downs in order to build up their own self confidence...one of the worst ways you can do that.....check out my 10 second exposure response if you want....:)
BohemianWaffle 4 years ago