How Do I Know If He Really Likes Me? - Episode #73

http://TheFourFactorsBook.com | http://www.facebook.com/thefourfactors | http://www.twitter.com/thefourfactors | A woman asked me how to know if the guy she's dating really likes her. I asked her if he really liked him. She said she wasn't sure. I think you know where I'm headed with this... She needs to figure out what she wants before she worries about what he wants. It's a simple but common problem.

Category:

Education

Tags:

• relationships
• love
• dating
• uncertainty
• confusion
• talking

[IrinarinarinaRafil]

Okay so there's this guy at my choir that's also my best friend (yikes!). We've been quite sisterly/brotherly to each other, like me brushing off lint from his hat, or him fixing the flowers in my hair for the costume. But I really like him but I don't know if he likes me! He tries to get my attention and we do speak a lot and hang out a lot during class so what does that mean?

[TheFourFactors]

@IrinarinarinaRafil This is a classic scenario. One question to ask yourself is how would you feel if the two of you started a romantic relationship, it didn't work out, and he no longer wanted to be friends as a result. Would it be worth it to try? If it would, then maybe you could just ask him. :)

[girly97978]

@TheFourFactors well you know,flirt with me or just be straight forward and say he likes me for me to be sure he likes me

[TheFourFactors]

@girly97978 maybe ask him if he likes you?

[girly97978]

@TheFourFactors ummm I don't know.... What do you mean?

[TheFourFactors]

@girly97978 what would he do so that you know he likes you?

[aspiification]

you are out of your mind. you can never ask directly those questions, if he makes you feel like you need them answered verbally, the answer is already there. 

[angelzcutie]

@TheFourFactors There are times where his friends would usually smile at him whenever i'm near him. They'd also call out his name and sometimes point at me. I also caught him staring at me sometimes but maybe i'm just imagining things? Well there are people saying that he likes a girl in my class, i'm not sure.

[TheFourFactors]

@girly97978 what would he have to do for you to know he likes you?