The rejection of "you're too nice of a guy" - a prospective (part 1)

This video is originally from my HomemadeGameGuru Channel:
A video way off my usual path...I wanted to address the subject about girls telling certain guys that they are "too nice". The whole "nice guys finish last" thing. I went through the same thing when I was younger, just as a close friend of mine is currently dealing with the sting of those words, and feel I have a prospective to share. My video rant was interrupted by a phone call so part 2 will be posted to conclude my opinion. * nice guy advice * advice for nice guys * Divas * female nurturing * nice guys * love * dating women * heartbreak * relationships * catch the mate * single men * plenty of fish * self-confident * date * man * how to attract guys * flirt with men * relationships * real men * how to attract women

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[blahblahblahman]

Us women do not want "assholes/jerks". It just so happens that the assholes and jerks have a certain personality trait that "nice guys" don't typically have. That personality trait is assertiveness. You let a woman know that you want her and you go after her. "Nice guys" are way too hesitant when it comes to courting a woman and seem to lack confidence. We do not like that.

Please stop spreading the lie that women want jerks.

[lanuwame]

@blahblahblahman Interestingly, many men feel that it's women with low self esteem that are easy prey for the assholes. They don't see their own worth or have issues that make them easy targets. I think it is amazing that people equate hesitant or shy with low self esteem and not humility or respectfulness. Just like how assertiveness and cockiness never seem to get associated. If a women knows the nice ones are the shy ones and jerks are in your face, wouldn't the real choice be obvious?

[lanuwame]

@blahblahblahman and just to clarify, I am not saying ALL women like jerks...just as I'm sure your comment isn't saying that all "nice guys" lack confidence or are too hesitant. There are serious relationship issues on both sides of the gender divide and there is no harm in having an open debate on what people think.  We all have our views

[Frontier500]

cant hear youuuuuuu

[lanuwame]

@Frontier500 Sorry for the volume - didn't know my mic was busted

[lanuwame]

Understand that this video is not about attacking women or demonizing relationships. I am simply discussing a subject - though trite and over discussed - but affects us as a society no matter how much people pretend to be unaffected by matters of rejection, love and belonging. We humans are flawed creatures and the only way to correct a flaw is to discuss it - not pretend it doesn't exist or can be swept under a rug. Remember, wars have been fought over matters of the heart...

[ThePeekaboonovelties]

In North America, women act as if they are independent and confident. If you actually travel to other countries like Russia, Ukraine and Brazil, you will find REAL independent and confident women. There, if a girl likes you, she doesn't sit around waiting for you to make the first move - they aggressively come after YOU! In Russia, geeky chess masters get the hottest women. That would NEVER happen here! In North America,once you have cash, then you get any woman you want. Nice means nothing!

[kshppatel]

bitches are a joke, seriously.

[josh19852008]

@lanuwame This person is obvioulsy clueless blahblahblahman! Sadly 80% of the female population in America is this way

[josh19852008]

@blahblahblahman Who listens to your babbling? Everything you just stated was FALSE. I am a nice guy. I have no problem courting a woman but I will not let her walk all over me. You know what we are hesitant? Because we know long before that opening line women have already decided. Which means if it does not look good you hvae no chance. WAKE UP! Women are the issue! Keep going out getting fucked and dumped. Not bothering me at all!

[BlackTruthForever]

@blahblahblahman

The biggest problem with women is that they are perfectly willing to lie about their behavior, and think little of it.

That line about "nice guys aren't assertive" is a good example. You are playing games and it shows, but when you're older you'll be asking where the nice guys are.

BW want to blame someone else for the fact that you hate yourself to the point that you seek out rotten men.

Take some responsibility for your poor choices, will you?

[e84fresh]

Women always want to complicate things. They say they want a nice guy but they always mess with assholes or guys with tons of money. They bitch about the simplest things. They are never satisfied. They blame everything on the man. They expect a man to read their mind. Going through all this bullshit isnt worth it. It's better to just get a piece of ass and leave.

[ATENakaATON]

@mercyhurstchic so women are too scared to live their own lives, too scared to do what they want to do?

[LuxuriousLuxembourg]

good for those 2 girls who didn't want u. cause look i had an ex the same way got her ass beat by the new guy and so on within 3 months. :) she wanted a bad boy she got one!!!! :)

[sdijnfpo0jaisf]

@lanuwame wow, dude. good answer :). i agree 100%

[mrhenryleopard]

@ThePeekaboonovelties

So what you're saying is:

"In Soviet Russia, chicks bang you!"

[ronfan69]

Women are treated like royalty from birth in our society so they don't need a guy to treat them that way. Guys are just disposable entertainment to them, mainly in the form of drama.