Narcissism of Small Differences

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It is common to believe that the more marked the differences between newcomers and citizens, the more pronounced the resultant racism. After all, white Frenchmen, Americans, and Dutch hotheads attack black folks. The self-proclaimed liberal white often harbour averse racism (unconscious racist attitudes). But, this is only half the truth. The ugliest manifestations of racism (up to genocide) are reserved to immigrants who look, act, and talk like us. The more they try to emulate and imitate us, the harder they attempt to belong, the more ferocious our rejection of them.

(From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 2 DVDs with 12 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)

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[dutytocareforothers]

Narcissists are horrible people that contribute greatly to unnecessary social dilemmas. If there is not a fire to add fuel to they will start the fire and continue to throw fuel into it because they like the idea of destruction.

[twopurringcats]

You are describing my mother perfectly!

[5671Karolina]

continued: basically, they gain their identity by being a mother... having achieved the incredible (this is meant ironic): giving birth to a child... feeding on the attention they get from family, teachers, other parents at school, etc.... then this new woman comes along and just does the same - giving birth to a child, getting attention from family, teachers, other parents...stealing all the attention from the narcissistic mother, so NPD/BD Mom decides to attack, to get back what is due to her.

[5671Karolina]

Excellent analysis...this really explains why all the borderline/NPD mothers out there go into narcissistic rage when their ex-partners, after finally having found the guts to leave them, find a new wife or even worse - have a child with this new woman. The BD/PDS thought they'd be forever the center of attention in their exs' and exs' families life...now this new woman comes along and does exactly as they do - be a mother, get attention from family, teachers, etc and it becomes explosive....

[gingerztube]

What does one do if their parent is a narcissist? I've recently discovered from your videos and others that my sadistic abusive father is most likely a narcissist. I chose to move far away from my parents nearly 30 years ago and haven't seen them in almost 20 years. They are getting older now and I feel torn between not ever seeing them again and possibly losing my mind if I do decide to see them in person again:(