When no means yes

better safe than having your picture on the front page of The Sun.
Youtube is not a medium where a topic as serious as rape can be dealt with in any serious manner that would do it justice, but still....

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[rowflowers]

Long and short of it is women need to learn to say yes. why are there so many romantic movies and porn films, but there is rarely a point where a woman spontaneously says "I want to have sex. Now. With you." Why is the onus on men to read tea leaves? Guys should just keep to themselves until he hears "You are sexy. I will do you." Society should change. This would make it so less confusing.

[regratex]

it all comes down to tedious power plays, really. peopple find themselves with parts of their bodies that give pleasure, then scheme on how to gain something rather than just enjoying them... sex isn't enough, not even great sex. It's telling that some men would work for a week to earn enough money to buy sex rather than work at a relationship with a woman.

[TJay9000]

watch?v=za7jQ1s1BV0

dangerous territory o.0

[regratex]

yes

some people like to play games on mine fields and complain when it turns nasty.

if anything they make it nasty for everyone else.

[ChainsawWeiler]

Wise advice Retardex, if only we could get you to explain this to those lebanese muslim gang-rapists that are jailed up here in australia, or would that be racist of me, to tell a muslim to not rape a woman who is not muslim. What should i do, uncle Retardex, you are so wise in the ways of the world. You had a woman interested in you? wow, i had you wrong, sorry.

[Vondegavitch]

@fungipie just to pose a question, or just to have a thought...... the comment 'not every rape is a rape' ......... is it still classed as rape if a girlfriend allows the intercourse, at no point gives any kind of feeling that intercourse isnt wanted, and then afta splitting having her shout rape about the case 5 months lata?

[fungipie]

You are absolutely correct that any "no" should be heeded seriously no matter how far you've already gotten, everyone has the right to change thier mind last minute for whatever reason. No one is owed sex just because you've "already gone this far". You are also dead on in that the vast majority of rapes occur in a very different setting than in portrayed in the media and could be easily avoided if someone had realized that "no" truely meant "no". But "Not every rape is a rape"?? Yes. It is.

[Naked4Jesus]

Good advice!

[SothisAmon]

Quite; others shall see your exampling and think twice but the battle being won means i must not linger. Black knight you will delay me no longer, i must save maidens else where!

Good day, I hope you find honour and a sense of duty in your bznz

[regratex]

Why, Sir, I would have thought that the endorphins released during the making of said comment would have been sufficient to reward someone as humble as your good self, but fret ye not, one can expect to have many supporting responses to said comment, hence increasing one's endorphin levels- in one suggests giving the supporter an endorphin reacharound - thus.