The Havens 'Where Is Your Line?'

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[Manceinion]

The idea of the girl being at fault is an outdated and dangerous concept. It's basically giving all men a free pass to do whatever the fuck they want with anyone they want with absolutely no responsibly on their part. No one asks to be raped and no one is at fault but the perpetrator of the rape. Human beings (yes, males too!) are capable of knowing when attention is unwanted. She led him on is NOT AN EXCUSE.

[Manceinion]

He isn't the centre of the universe. It's HIS responsibility NOT to rape someone. If he couldn't stop himself, he is no better than an animal.

[gigantiskapa]

I hope this is a eye opener for a lot of people, if i girl says no, is crying or is asleep it is not okay. And you should never blame the one being raped cause you are never ever asking for it.

[zoeygirl11]

The same thing happened 4 years ago to me justice was served

[EmilyRosinaCarey]

The colouring of the video is a bit dark; so much I can't always make out what is going on... it's a shame really; as the video has such an important message behind it.

[Furbotz]

It shocked me that 67% would not stop trying after the girl was crying. I'd sit up and make her a fucking brew and crumpets! Sex would be the last thing on my mind!

[fuckingfucksake]

If someone's that drunk, you take care of them, get them a glass of water and call them a taxi home. Sickening that anyone could believe this is okay. Dont you have a sister? A mother? Any woman in your life who means anything to you? Or just basic human empathy?

[cherryzap]

Plus, if she's that drunk that she's vomiting and stumbling and crying and can't stay awake, she's not in a position to make important decisions, to give consent. If you're unsure, just don't. Never the victim's fault, even if she kissed him and danced with him, she always has the right to change her mind, right up to the last second.

[vafoni]

where is the part he's making her sweet tea with something small to eat and afterwards makes her comfortable to sleep so she could go home in the morning sober without risking herself even more?!

big part of sex is about making the other side feeling good also and not only to satisfy yourself, even if it's a one night stand! satisfaction is a mutual thing, that's how it really works!

i would have date this princess and would have fish slap that dude so he could go back to reality!