platonic friends, casual sex, and mistakes.

someone wrote in and wanted to know if two girls, who likes girls, can ever only be just friends.

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[allysmusic14]

your brain rocks.

[NuyoRican530]

This video helped me a lot. How appropriate it is right now. I have just been dealing with this subject today with a good bisexual friend of mine. It seems impossible to be "Just Friends" and not cross the line at times. However I agree that talking about things helps a lot to make sure both friends are on the same page with what they are feeling.

[wuyiting]

Man, that requires principle and discipline. I am only human, I am terribly flawed. I have lapses of judgements and moments of weakness. HOWEVER, I'll endeavour not to mess things up. If I keep crushing on my friends, I'd be left friendless. If that day happens, and I don't have my rock, I'd be devastated. I like some friends way too much to do that. I think friendships last longer than relationships in general. So I want those people to be in my life as long as possible.Need to talk always b4!

[wuyiting]

Man, that requires principle and discipline. I am only human, I am terribly flawed. I have lapses of judgements and moments of weakness. HOWEVER, I'll endeavour not to mess things up. If I keep crushing on my friends, I'd be left friendless. If that day happens, and I don't have my rock, I'd be devastated. I like some friends way too much to do that. I think friendships last longer than relationships in general. So I want those people to be in my life as long as possible.Need to talk always b4!

[medium8]

I've never felt anything more than friendship for a friend because they are more like family to me.

[TeBEA007]

I think that even if you've dated or fooled around with a friend, it is totally possible to go back to being 'Just friends'. I have dated almost all of my close friends, except for my straight best friend. Personally, I have a hard time not crossing that line because I am attracted to people because of an intellectual connection...but as soon as you cross that line it's obvious if that's what you want soon after. So I agree it's possible, but I haven't done it yet.

[khaspar2000]

Hey Jess, Love your videos xx I just wanted to say that I have a very good friend who is also gay, we have been friends since school and although she came out a long time before me, we have never felt a need to 'cross that line' shall we say. I defo think it is possible to have gay friends who are just friends but defo don't think I could ever have friends who have ever been more than that :/ xx

[sealu025]

It's possible ^_^

[lauramonica3340]

your sooo gorgeous.

[Prolui]

You're awesome!!

[MainelyButch]

It seems that we measure every relationship nowadays by the amount of physical attraction, or sexual appetite that we have/they have. It's not all about sex...but I guess it IS when you are younger...that wears off...I have found that as I have aged that it has become easier to remain friendly with ex's...NOT buddies...JUST basically friendly, no hanging out or"dates". But no slandering or putting them on blast either. Once you cross the sex line with a friend, you cannot go back.