A Pause and Food for Thought...Regarding Amelia Massagegoddess

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[MyLifeInDogYears]

I think the saddest thing about this whole situation is that .. It makes people afraid to express themselves for fear of being hurt.

[MissJanieHere]

that's what i'm saying exactly!

[MyLifeInDogYears]

You are absolutely right!

We need to be building one another up. And realize that Amelia is enjoying her hard work.. we will all get there too!

I was sad to see you upset :(

[MissJanieHere]

sorry about that...it just took me aback that there were people that would actually keep a person from celebrating their accomplishments.

cuz you can tell that it bothered amelia and that is what upset me..she was looking foward to her anniversary and somebody had to throw cold water on it! not right at all!

[gastricRose]

Great video and your food for thought is a great way of saying all that you said.. I have such a hard time expressing my self and you said it all for all of us.. Thank you (Gracias)..rosemary

[MissJanieHere]

thanks. hope you feel better soon!

[allisonpacino]

Thank you for always supporting everyone Jane...The point is that Amelia and I were joking...I joke around a lot and people should know that by now.

[3foldutopiandream]

i've been here over a year & there's been drama since day one. & there'll be even more drama to come. delete it. this is a great video. you're way too sweet. =)

i do have an issue with the fat thing though. not for myself, but thinking about other ppl. someone that weighed 500lbs and had surgery might only get to amelia's pre-op weight. and they'll still be considered "fat". even after WLS and all the hard work. i can only imagine how hurtful that is.

can't wait to see you next week!

[bbolam72]

food for thought janie

support is the key

-barry

[xlolagolightlyx]

One can hope. You are just so honest and open and everything you say or do seems to be about being a good beautiful soul. You are so supportive of everyone around you and open with your care and love- and whoever I become, I would lucky to have half your amazing qualities, and I mean that from the bottom of my heart.

[MissJanieHere]

YOu're right, Becky! Absolutely!

[MissJanieHere]

yeah, there will always be drama, but sometimes you have to speak out when you believe in something strong enough. I see what you mean by the word fat, but I am not calling anyone by that but myself and I prefer that word to obese. (i can't stand that word! lol) can't wait to see you too! omg..i am getting sick with excitement!

[MissJanieHere]

Thats so sweet of you to say!

[MissJanieHere]

Thanks, Diana! See ya next week!

[MissJanieHere]

thanks!