Communicating What You Want Sexually

It's not easy for any of us to be honest about what we want for fear of hurting their feelings. When we protect the male ego, we sacrifice our orgasm.

Category:

Education

Tags:

• Betty Dodson
• Carlin Ross
• dodson and ross
• women
• sex
• clitoris
• masturbation
• communication
• orgasm

[tattooskin72]

Unfortunately we don't live in a society where sexual communication is common... hell, communication at all. But sex! It's hidden and dirty... most parents don't talk about it and don't want it taught in school.

I'm happy my mom and grandma weren't closed off to discussing these things.

[SuperBirdii]

this makes me glad i'm so comfortable with sex...i have no problem telling anybody what i want them to do.

happy face.

[halleyscomet]

Women: Most men who are worth having sex with will find feedback to be SEXY! It's erotic when you're into the act enough to tell us what you want.

[S3234953]

There are so many delusional men out there. Most men think they're 'good' at what they do because women LIE. I'd venture to guess that the majority of men think they've given many orgasms, when the reality is they've probably succeeded in giving one or two over the course of their entire sexual careers.

Betty has mentioned the fragile male ego several times in her talks and she's spot on. Women need to quit catering to their partner's egos and get honest.

[hairspraycliche]

@ariadni21 it can mean that you need to go pee, but more likely it means that you are about to squirt.

[silverboyzzz]

Communication is key to sexual satisfaction. If you don't tell your partner how you like it, they will never know.

[ariadni21]

I think what you guys are doing is just AMAZING!!! Its real unlike porn!! I mean really why do guys think every woman is or needs to be a porn star in bed!?! Ok..so I like the kinky stuff too but WHY CANT WE JUST BE TOGETHER!? Its so nice to have two intelligent women giving real info on the web!! But I do have a question, sometimes when Im about to orgasm I feel like Im going to pee...is this normal!?

[johntinkc]

ONE THOUGHT !: change your you's to I's & your butt's to and. when your talking to men for good info exchange.

[Emilyaucoin]

Oh Betty i NEED your sexy wisdom on sex. I have a best friend whos a gentle gaint ,anime nerd like me. and i resently feel in Lust with him. I never had sex before but i do masterbate. and i am reilgous so as a roman catholic i scared because i feel like it will not one bit specail for my first time because a part me think that i sound be really in love and try not to lust so much. What can i do Betty? HELP

[pm11237]

The first time you have sex its awkward. I thought about it and for the next time I'm planning on "showing" him what I like by playing with myself in front of him. It's a great way to foreplay and I never thought about using his hand so thank you ladies! Yes, I love you and your videos are helping me discover...period. :D

[cindygallop]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS. If you boiled everything I am trying to do with my own venture makelovenotporndotcom down to one key message, it is precisely this one thing: TALK ABOUT IT. I couldn't agree more.