Are Black Men Selfish For Not Dating Single Black Mothers??

Comment by YourShitStinksToo:

Yeah, you don't need to be dating a single black mother or any single mothers. You sound like a selfish tool already. All you want is a woman to herself and refuse to understand that KIDS COME FIRST!

Comment by foxxywoxxy:

I am glad that he is being honest because then it allows the woman to decide if she will "settle" for someone like this. WE women have to accept the fact that we are dealing with a large group of men who accept no amount of responsibility for their own-- nor will they accept responsibility for someone else. SElfishness and apathy is destroying the black community.

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[mimipetals1]

U sound so damn stupid

[macadon]

@mimipetals1 Only idiots would say that b/c they choose to ignore the reality of it.

[checkmateforever]

The whole idea of someone calling a black man "selfish" because he chooses to not date single mothers is ridiculous.

[theephraimite]

Dude, we see eye to eye. You've stated your reason's, which are pretty much the same as mine. So you are not selfish. Besides, you are not obligated to take care of someone else's child. People who don't understand your reasons or chose to ignore them are selfish.

[StreamerVideo]

LOL of course they're not selfish for not dating single black mothers.. Think about it who wants to be reminded of someone's ex-boyfriend/thug everytime they look @ their step child?

not to mention everytime they look @ their step child they will also be reminded of what a nasty whore that women used to be..

[theabomation]

are black man "selfish" because he chooses to not date single mothers? No black men should not feel guilty about dating single mothers it is of no advantage for a male to raise another man child.

[unak78]

I don't feel like supporting someone else's kid. I'm sorry. Some men are better at handling that sort of thing. There are plenty of men who have kids themselves who are more open to that sort of thing. I have no kids so I have no obligation to support a family. I agree with you 100%.

Thanks for this!

[checkmateforever]

@kimmie6209 lol...interesting and good point.

[pacedeli24]

@checkmateforever REAL TALK

[shotta625]

I have to speak on this. I'm in the same boat as this brotha. I went to college, started my biz and don't have any kids. I've been the guy that wasn't want by the female when she didn't have kids, then wanted when knocked up by some loser. So, since she didn't consider me when she didn't have any kids, why should I take on her shit? As the little brats will tell you in a minute, "You're not my daddy!" This is not my bloodline, but I have to accept this b/c of why? Please explain?

[thabg007]

i feel the same way, its not my fault u have a kid, i dont have any, im not gonna be some random baby daddy, and most of these girls have babies by bum ass dudes that anit got shit going for them,