RE: JustWondering

Response to Grinsho about being trans and dating. Where in I babble and interrupt myself with anecdotal information while trying to point out that for us it's just that our 'trans-ness' comes up first as an issue, but that in the end most would break our heart for some other reason after we've gotten even more deeply involved. We can't blame it all on our nature.

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[jessicabake2]

Personally if someone desires me because I'm trans or because they have a thing for trans girls it makes me very uncomfortable and not interested.

It's one thing for a man to want me because I'm a woman that happens to be trans, but it's not ok for my trans-ness to be something that makes me desirable to them.

It's like getting excited over an aspect of my life that represents much pain.

And could you refrain from the 'kiss kiss' stuff please?

[torontoteddy62]

Jessica now that was not far not all men have that look,when trans woman tells them she transgender me i find trans woman better to get along with and more fun to be.Becuase they dont think how much money this guy ahs in his wallet.trans woman now what they waant in life and what there looking for in relationship Kiss Kiss.