AdoptHelp- Tamara Birthmother Video

A birthmother talks about her experiences with adoption at AdoptHelp.

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[meggo86]

Love is sacrificing your own wants and needs.Love is an action, and if you never grew up being taught how to do that then it is difficult to offer that to your own child. Her children need healthy and truly loving homes to grow up to be happy and fulfilled adults.She may understand that she doesn't know how to provide that. Please just think before your judge.

[meggo86]

Yes she needs to be smarter with safe sex, but choosing a life through adoption for her children that she can't provide them is a wonderful option. If she chose to keep them, but didn't have the means to take care of them, then the children would grow up without a healthy, happy, and safe environment It is sad that people judge mothers like her. A child needs more than just "love" from their birthparents. Love is more than an emotional attachment to your child or to your parent.

[meggo86]

Anybody judging her needs to stop and reflect on their own life. You don't know how she was raised or how she was treated by her own family. You don't know her motives for giving her children up for adoption and you don't know the situation in which she found her self pregnant I bet half of you judging her have had sex irresponsibly with someone and were just lucky enough that you didn't end up pregnant or get someone pregnant.

[ashatbulaparanormal]

@da1073 Oh please!!! She's giving them away like they are puppies.Just so she can go out and get her self knocked up again and don't have to take on her responsibility for her actions .She's not thinking of those children,only of her self!!! I have no respect for women who toss their children away like last weeks newspaper. But then again, adoption agencies and adoptive parents probably brain washed her into giving them up.

[ashatbulaparanormal]

This women is every bit selfish!!!! goes and gets her self knocked up not once but twice and then ditches her responsibility.She should be ashamed of her self.I don't blamed those kids when they grow up and never want to see her or that boyfriend ever again. If my mother ever did this to me I would hate her forever!!!!

[ashatbulaparanormal]

This young woman gave her kids away not once but twice!!!! My advice to you young lady in this video,KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED!!!!!

[DennyandKelly]

I am so impressed with this young lady. We are currently pursuing infant adoption, and we are waiting to be selected by a birthmom. "Like" us on Facebook: Denny and Kelly Adopt

[whidea]

This young woman is not selfish, she is doing the best thing for her babies, she appers to be knowledgeable as to what she can and cannot do and I am sure to some decree heart borken. But come on people this is true love. Gving up two children because she knows they will be tkaen care of , probally something is unable to do at this point in her life. Your are magnificent mom, and you have done what is best for your babies. My husband and I can't ahve children and would do anything for a baby

[misteeq64]

Are you for real it takes real maturity to give a child up for adoption . Raising children and having a relationship with man are 2 different things

[da1073]

Somnambul-Maybe the fact that she IS in an unstable relationship motivates her to want her child to have a more stable home. An unstable mom and dad relationship can harm kids. God bless moms who choose to raise their kids....and bless those who relinquish as well.