If she has a boyfriend

Miami Dating Coach Dan Silverman discusses what to do when she says she has a boyfriend.

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Howto & Style

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• if she has a boyfriend
• pick up
• approaching women
• PUA
• Dating Coach
• Opening

[JohnSmith3870]

Mr. Dating Coach, I know that "john smith" is a man's name, but I am a woman, and I want to address something - don't worry I'm not trying to tell you off. I think you should caution men to "plowing through" it if a woman says she has a boyfriend, because this EXACT THING has happened to me so many times and it's really frustrating when the guy refuses to take the hint. I don't interrupt them and I'm not rude at all, but when the man keeps pushing, I actually find it very disrespectful.

[MiamiDatingCoach]

@JohnSmith3870 Thanks for the insightful comment. I understand your frustration and I'm not advocating guys to plow through a woman who truly is not interested. This should also answer the question for women, "How do I stop guys I'm not interested in from pursuing me." So many women have this problem and the main reason is answered right in your post. "the guy refuses to take the hint." The key is to be firm and direct about not being interested. Men don't pick up on hints.

[MiamiDatingCoach]

@JohnSmith3870 You can't smile flirtatiously and say, "I have a boyfriend." or even smile when you say it. I'm not saying to be a bitch, but you can't give him mixed signals or be nice about it. Simply look at him with a serious, but respectful face and say, "Thanks for the compliment but I'm not interested because I have a boyfriend and love him." If he continues to persist... well now you have a right to start being a bitch to him. :) Maybe I'll do a future video on this.

[MiamiDatingCoach]

Jung, I said these reasons are average. There are many times when a woman has a boyfriend and truly loves and appreciates him. You can tell by the way she talks about him. If this is the case, it would be terrible to try and mess that up.

However, it is concerning that you don't have male and female friends and don't socialize and neither does your boyfriend. That is very unhealthy and results in codependency. It is great to love each other a lot, but not at the expense of your independence.

[youmademethisway5]

Hi it's seems like your talking bad about women but I can relate to a lot of what your saying it's not you talking bad it's the women's actions that they do and we accept but at the end of the day it's like the Bishop said in order to control her body you first have to control her mind. Thanks

[amouralizee]

the fuck? did he just say jesse kastopolis? uncle jesse from full house

[AaronWii1]

@MiamiDatingCoach thank you this actually really helped me understand alot! Im a young man by the way and I have a "good friend" whom I care about like a sister, and I am also attracted to her. But she does have a boyfriend, and she does understand I care about her alot, so she wont answer all my calls or texts. I always wondered why but now I see. Because shes with her boyfriend.... and she loves and cares alot more about him obviously. So I dont want to get too involved, I just want her happy.

[BrutalEST96]

@JohnSmith3870 The main problem is, women sometimes are too friendly with guys (not that you shouldnt be friendly), but 90% of the time when a guy you see often (like a classmate or college), you have walked up to him and said something really friendly. I know from personal experience how easy it is to mistake a friendly girl for a girl whos interested in you.

[SuckMyKintama]

I'm feelin like shit.