Part (1) I HATE YOU, DON'T LEAVE ME. BORDERLINE PERSONALITY BPD

~ i do not have borderline personality disorder, i am reading this book to help people ~

THIS IS A READING FROM THE BOOK CALLED I HATE YOU DON'T LEAVE ME. UNDERSTANDING THE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER. BY JAROLD J. KRIESMAN, M.D., AND HAL STRAUS

SOME CHARACTERISTICS ARE VIOLENT MOOD SWINGS, CHRONIC DEPRESSION, AND SELF-DESTRUCTIVE TENDENCIES

Category:

Education

Tags:

• BORDERLINE
• PERSONALITY
• DISORDER
• BPD
• MOOD
• SWINGS
• SELF-DESTRUCTIVE
• UNSTABLE
• IMPULSIVENESS
• SELF
• MUTILATION
• MASOCHISM

[universalstudios13]

My partner is destroying my life. Im afraid for my kids. I feel like im living in a prison.

[sweetsmile1]

@universalstudios13 if your kids are in the wake of the destruction then get out. If you didn't have kids to think of and you felt you could withstand it then that is your decision, but a word of the wise - they are your main decision maker now - if it is ruining their life then get out. Or you will end up with dysfunctional kids from them dealing with the chaos :( (((hugs))))

[laniasmith07]

I have BDP. its so difficult for because im tryin to self help

[gummynumberone]

help me!!

[goingplaces11]

@goingplaces11 part 5: I've seen many patients. Though I'm not a therapist nor psychiatrist, I am a physician. And I have to admit that single therapies will not work, if the environment or the people they are in constant contact with continue to be harsh and brutal. As with any mental disorder the success to any therapy relies on the effort of the people surrounding the patient. It takes a village....

[goingplaces11]

@goingplaces11 part 4: But they simply need to know that the person they shower their love on is truly worth it. Some children grow up in an atmosphere where the parents continually fought or used stinging remarks. Sometimes this constant attack drains a vulnerable person aka child. It's like wearing headphones all day and going deaf years later. They also don't need to be looked as as lab animals as they are highly intelligent human beings.

[goingplaces11]

@goingplaces11 part 3: As more and more people around the person with BPD start to shower the person with extra love and care, that remember they did not receive as a child, the person with BPD will heal and learn to adapt better methods. That person will also open up and come out of that turmoil. It's surprising that BPD patients have the most compassion to give someone. That's where the frustration stems. They want to GIVE love because it's also what they CRAVE. They are NOT selfish people.

[goingplaces11]

@goingplaces11 part 2: The idea is they react in a combative manner in order to test your staying power. They might test you numerous times. If each time you turn out reliable, they will start trusting you. But rememebr there are very very few people that they will ever trust. So you will always be held to a higher level of expectation. Sometimes even the slightest move toward the exit or abandonment can bring back old wounds.

[goingplaces11]

BPD is a very sad disorder. It's where a person has been so severely abandoned and neglected emotionally. It's like a person without a skin. They try in vain with many methods to put up false skin and protect themselves. When they act out it's because they don't know any better. People normally react harshly but that is the worst manner in dealing with BPD. THey best method is instead to give more love and more compassion. Once they realize you will not abandon them they will start to heal.

[MrGrevy]

@TSMYF1 No, it's a personality disorder, not exactly the same thing. You have no education or understanding other than your bizarre book of fables. Please leave the discussion to people with an above room temperature iq. "God" indeed.

[ForeverMemoriesCards]

thank you for reading this. i have bpd and i will not give up. never give up.

[TSMYF1]

@gercacn Your stupid DSM "bible" claims it IS a mental illness! Psychiatry is the biggest scam made up of non believers in God and HIS way.

[Sminieify]

@universalstudios13 Than leave your partner. Dont act like a victim. You are choosing to stay with him.