Self Esteem, Confidence, How to Love Yourself, Human Needs & Humanistic Psychology
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I would love to fulfill her love and belonging needs
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Thanks for the insight :) much appreciated on my end.
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please wear fuller clothes...its hard to concentrate
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@utube3215 the way to get over guilt is to apologise to the person u have hurt/do something for the person/else depending upon the situation.
life cannot be wasted thinking abt the past or the future....its right now...so do something worthwile that brings peace and happiness
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im not a bad person but other people think im bad coz i dont talk frequently with them....
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I just want a friend ok does that make me a bad person
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cool vid :) !!
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@rinnin yes... watch videos by "mystery" and "the mystery method" ..
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I most defiantly have an improved and expanded understanding of self esteem. Thanks, and keep up the good work, you are making a positive difference in people’s lives.
Lane Hale – Founder/ Author of Passion or Poison
My problem is that I cannot even fulfil my basic needs as I have never been in a relationship. This affects my esteem and as a result I am not attractive to women and the whole vicious cycle continues. Any advice?
rinnin 1 month ago 4
@rinnin The most basic need is love for yourself. The main point in this video is not to worry about what others think of you. Self esteem comes from within YOU, not someone else. No one can lower your self esteem but you, and only you can make the choice to feel good about yourself. Think about what makes you unique, your passions, dreams & values. Even people in relationships can have esteem issues. This vid suggests ways we can increase our self esteem, no relationship needed.
psychetruth 3 weeks ago 5
Thats allot to remember,
LAyellowdog 3 months ago
@LAyellowdog Then fave the vid and come back to it anytime you're feeling down. I'm also a fan of making little sticky notes around the house, to remind myself to be positive, be true to my passions, not let my fear and self doubt prevent me from pursuing my dreams, etc.
psychetruth 3 weeks ago 2
This seems to go against the doctorine of pyshology today where many therapists teach patients Robert Ellis REBT. And his ABC model of rational emotive therapys. instead of endlessly trying to satisfy your self esteem you accept that your fallible, have flaws and that your no more worthy or less worthy than any other human being.
tiberiousss 3 months ago
@tiberiousss Cognitive Behavior Therapy is one popular psychotherapy used today but it's one school of therapy (basically Ellis's brand) and it's not the only school or type of therapy used. There are psychotherapists, humanistic psychologists, and many other types.
Yes, these school often contradict one another in there basic philosophy. Ellis was famous for not liking many other school of thought.
psychetruth 3 months ago 2