Will having an unknown donor make a difference to a child with Lesbian Parents?

This is basically the question that was posed to me. Y'all know I'm opinionated so I answered it. No disrespect to heterosexuals but some of y'all don't understand "the Norm" is not always the norm. It depends on your the person.

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• insemination
• donor
• sperm
• lesbians
• gays
• having
• babies
• gay
• marriage
• ttc
• iui

[mrdk216]

y dont u want the kid to not have access to their father/donor or will u allow them too if they want to?

[deborahdaughter7]

@mrdk216 I would. Just like in the movie. They get 18 and want to see the donor that is up to them. They might. Just to know what he looks like. He is not a father regardless and would never be in that role and they would know that upfront.

[mrdk216]

@deborahdaughter7 u mean u hope he wont be a father. if they were to contact him and he wanted to be and they were okay with it y wud u try and fight that? or wud u let it take its natural course?

[deborahdaughter7]

@mrdk216 There are legal papers he signed forgoing his rights to be a parent. I cannot contact him for child support. He cannot contact me for visitation rights. However if my girls are over 18 and he wants to be in the life they are grown. I couldn't stop that even if I wanted to. I would support whatever decisions my children make as adults short of hurting another human being.

[mrdk216]

u shud youtube the channel 4 documentary "sperm donor unknown" its a really good dialogue on the topic..

having a mum and dad ..shud b normal becasue it is HOW humans actually exist..

and no 1 thinks its good to have a dad that beats their mum just cos its together its a non argument

end of the day ull do wat u want and ull have to live with hiding stuff from ur kids if they ask bout their dad if they ask

[deborahdaughter7]

@mrdk216 Why would I hide stuff from my kids? I don't know his name. I would never hide anything from my kids. A mom and a dad should be normal huh? Well tell that to all the fathers who aren't there. My children have tow parents.

[fatchickskinny]

I think fear and religion have a lot to do with the animosity people feel towards homosexuality. Many still consider it taboo and some equate it to bestiality and pedophilia. It really is sad. Heterosexual couples can bear and adopt children, abuse them, and no one ever questions whether their sexuality is what makes them twisted. And yet, they consider gays twisted JUST because they're gay, despite the loving environments they create for their children. It's madness, I tell you! MADNESS...

[IceTreyMan]

Very thought provoking! I learn a lot from you and their videos. You've opened my mind to a lot of things.

[nurvahnah30]

I'm trippin cuz I have the same pair of earrings lol *side note*

[mrdk216]

@mrdk216 cool . also wat do u think u wud do if the donor just one day contacts u and is like they wud like to participate with the childs life? despite the legal papers wud u allow him if the child was okay with it or wud u still make them wait till their 18? #just asking hope the questions arent annoying u too much! lol.

[deborahdaughter7]

@Weston1968 So what about all the homosexual teenagers being raised by heterosexuals? Hopefully people will begin to teach tolerance for someone who is different from you. The world would be a better place if we learned to respect one another.

[deborahdaughter7]

@Weston1968 Why don't you talk to an adult who was raised by a same sex couple and see what they say. Your opinion is meaningless. It might as well have been plucked out of the sky. My partner and I are more than likely anomalies seeing how we are both balanced with male and female traits. There are exceptions to every rule, my friend. Everyone is different.