Is He Using YouTube To Come On To Me?

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Question: "A friend played a song for me on YouTube that was definitely a love song. Is he coming on to me?"

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[Awonnuriel]

Or maybe he just likes the song and thinks you will like it as well.

[Erikamagz]

Yey hehe I´m in the first 10 comments :D

I like this guy, his advice is simple and cool

[injaley]

@SilentBat Did the girl recognize what you were trying to hint at? B/c this guy from my class gave me a cd with a song recorded on it (I think it was a romantic song but I never made the connection) and I am so obtuse I never thought he had any ulterior motive other than showing me a good song. It's only now, years later, that I saw this video that I thought about the cd.

[davidgzmn12345]

Isnt it obvious?, she wants to have wild, kinky sex with you ;P

[Q8sugargirl]

what if he just like that song and wants to share it with everyone !

[C00ki3M0nsst3r]

roflz if some1 said 'this has touched me and open so many feeling I have for you' to me i would defiantly run in the other direction.

creepy 0.0

[ParadeOf91]

If a guy sends you a music video that happens to be about love and you respond "this has touched me and open so many feeling I have for you" I think that's going to be pretty awkward if he didn't mean it that way...lmfao

[infiniteme0586]

I had this happen to me in highschool only it was with a comic instead of a song and it was super awkward. It was more awkward than if he had just been straight up with me about it. This guy is just putting pressure on the woman to react to an ambiguous situation he created for her and that is such a turn off, esp when a guy won't man up and tell you he wants you. Ultimately, I would say "yes, that's a really nice song" and 'leave it at that' unless he clearly demonstrates his affections.

[MaicoMoon]

The guy is a pansy. Since he won't likely tell you, just ask him outright if he likes you. Be straightforward. Want to know something? Ask.

[SilentBat]

"Beautiful Surprise" - India Arie

[SilentBat]

Completely true, at least for me. I gave a girl a romantic song once, trying to hint that I liked her.

[EvilPaola]

I agree, I think he was trying to tell the girl something.