Controlling Boyfriend

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Is your boyfriend controlling? Do you see warning signs that you could potentially be in an abusive relationship?

Is your boyfriend always angry at someone or something?

Does he try to isolate you and control who you see or where you go?

Are you afraid to break up with him?

Are you afraid to bring up certain subjects so that he won't get mad?

Do you find his abusive behavior getting worse over time?

As a woman, it's not good to tolerate bad behavior or a controlling boyfriend. According to Dr. Bob Grant, a licensed professional counselor and relationship expert, "a healthy relationship falls apart, when one partner ignores the bad behavior of the other simply to maintain the relationship. Women who tolerate a man who is abusive fall into this category. Given enough time, and without training a man to value you, these type of relationships usually end very tragically."

If your boyfriend is abusive in any way, I highly recommend that you seek the services of a Licensed Professional Counselor or Psychologist.

What you want is a boyfriend who is healthy and happy.

Healthy boyfriends are able to:
• Receive constructive feedback from others without getting defensive
• Know how to resolve conflict in a constructive manner or is willing to learn how to do so
• Allows themselves to feel their anger and resentment and expresses anger in an appropriate way

If he is unwilling to change his ways, you have a big decision to make. Do you stay and tolerate his behavior? Or do you break up and move on?

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