In this video a therapydoc presents an old theory that people need psychological space, which is why they disappear on other people. (People don't like this, it is perceived as abandonment.) A post about it on my blog (http://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com) elaborates on the psychological process. What we should be doing is going for less space, more intimacy, not what is recommended here, which works in the short run, but won't after awhile. Someone's going to want more, probably you.
ideally, yes this would work.
njb1017 4 months ago
wat
pararamik 2 years ago