A young Somali woman who is not afraid to say I was ABUSED! PART 1

CLARIFICATIONS ABOUT MY AGE AND NATIONALITY!!!!

**** First of all, I was taken by the CPS, and he went to jail. We convinced the CPS, Judge & etc that I came to America with a fake age or else my family and his family would've gotten in trouble . They said I was much older than 11. Somehow they believe us. I have all the changed documents/proof. What benefit will I get from lying? So, please stop disrespecting me! I wouldn't tell lies about my life on Youtube. It would have later on bite me in the a*s so why take a risk? I said my story was very concised and below I added the things I left out.. btw, I'm full blooded Somali!! *****
When I got married to my ex I was a 11 year old young girl. Me and him were married for 8 years. I gave up everything for him. I gave up my education and dropped out of school when I was in the six grade. I left my family for him. I gave up my whole life for him. When I met him he didn't have nothing. The place we use to call home was his mom's basement we use to sleep on the floor. Then a little bit after that his mom kicked us out the house.
I thought I had my dream husband and that my dream came true. But my nightmare was just starting and it was around the corner. It was hell....he was very physically, financially, emotionally, sexually, and verbally abusive and controlling ..&
he use to leave bruises on my skin and and marks on my face...i was in coma for one month. .. I was a cunt and worthless to him...he called me henious words in front our kids and not all in front of my children but his friends and family enjoyed the show as well..I got punched one day really hard on my JAR to the point it was dislocated and reason of my beating was because I mean-mugged one of the girl he was sleeping with...his mom told me I would be OK and please daughter in law leave this up to Allah and i should just pray for his change of heart and .... maybe I needed to be more submissive....
if my video can help just one person then my work is worthwhile ..and in our community this things are never talk about I had to do a group on this issue because it is really dear to my heart. I dedicated to putting an end to "violence against women" and physical/mental abuse against women & children." Now, to be clear, violence against to any-parson is unacceptable too, of course. However, I am just "me my passion lies in the betterment of women and children.....

**Theres about 5 account on here, that's all from my ex-husband who is here trying to defend himself. Enough is Enough! I was fragile with you and now I'm a brick! ***

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[ThatchikAshuni]

Wow. This actually made me tear up. You go girl. I'm so proud of you for speaking out. You're such a beautiful and strong woman. I'm sure this video will give hope to people out there that are being abused at the moment. Very inspiring. Keep it up :) <3

[maliahamza]

@ThatchikAshunithank thank u all of you guys for the all the support...it means a lot to me wallahi ..i am sharing this video about my life so other people can learn from some of those more painful experiences i was been feeling it all my life it was hell for me but it made me strong woman i am free from abuse.. (Alhamdulillah).....Jazak'Alla­h..to all of u <3

[mohammedaldeen23]

cousin u know I love u and I'll always be here for ya

[maliahamza]

@mohammedaldeen23 ...i love u to ...thank u for the for all the support...<3

[LuLakers404]

I'm so glad to be part of your life Malia. I will always be here for you. I know you was shaking when we were making this video. But they havent heard the brutal pain behind this story. Love you babe.

[maliahamza]

@LuLakers404 ..... awwww thank u thank u lu for all the support ..u are the best wallahi & i love you cuzzin.....<3...

[Timaaaaax5]

Really? You're going to sit here and call her a liar/fake/attention whore? You say that its not possible that she could get married in the US at 11 and have a baby at 12. Sorry for the news flash, but so many things go undetected despite the power of America's so-called "law of the land." Very hypocritical of you "muslims" claim that she couldn't get married at that age. Does Islam not allow you to marry once you reach the age of puberty in order to protect you from committing sins? Good day! =/

[xertaqaadka]

@khalifjunior you dumb prick, i dont 've to be 198 years old to differentiate what's logic and what's not. it's obvious that these two girls are just bullshitting and if you believe this then you prolly believe santa as well, what a coconut you carry in your head in the name of brain! and hey just for the record, not all authors and movie script writters are seccessful some of them are big time floppers and ended up eating their script as like a mad man and this crap up there is one of those.

[KosarAbyan]

Sister if this really happend, then you is a real brave woman, I personally dont beleive that this is getting any better or you is a rolemodel to the younger generation. I really sorry for all your pain, and in sha Allah with Sabr things will get better for you and your family,. But by you doing this video putting your ex husband on blast wont make this better for you.

[sk8terboyfreak16]

Know that....this women has 5 kids and talking to a mother of five with such foul language is not polite. The ones that say all this bull crap about this sister, can watch ther mother and sister get tortured and not have the balls to even protect ther very own mother. Shame to see weak Muslim men. Be more of a man like our prophet PBUH. He is a real man! Never laid hands on his wife because he is a man not the fools who call themselves men today. May Allah protect the oppressed and give guidanc

[sk8terboyfreak16]

Exposed him by cutting his hand....and that again is not a fault because he or she didn't just do unjustly with themselves but instead did it to the people they took from, and for that ther hands were cut off. Watch what you post because your as well accusing someone you don't see or know. She is a Muslim sister and I will stand side by side with the oppressed and reveal the oppressor.

[sk8terboyfreak16]

2. Don't take the Hadith the wrong way, beating someone again and again is not a fault, a fault is when you hurt yourself and do not involve others in it. Anybody who is a criminal in Islam should be put out ther for everyone to see. Like the people who steel in Islam, by cutting ther hands one can say we exp o

[sk8terboyfreak16]

1. This is not exposing her husbands faults because the name was never mentioned.

[ismahan04]

@khalifjunior What do I need to pay attention to here? Whatever that have occurred behind closed door is unknown to you & me so take a chill yourself. I am being rational cause you obviously don't seem to have one. We all know she left him than what more could she want from the person she had left behind? All I am saying is this; there is nothing wrong with helping yourself & others but how you help others speaks volume. This is not the way to go about & its unnecessary for this futile drama.

[khalifjunior]

@ismahan04 it's actually quite funny to me that your too caught up in your own comments to even pay attention to the big picture "a girl got abused when she shouldnt have " and your up here displaying your knowledge in legal terminologies? WTF she changed herself for the better the moment she left him what more could you ask from her ? don't talk about him why? could u undo all the pain he caused. once again this is not a war of words b/w u and i , this is a bigger matter so i sugest u shut it.

[BintAbdirashid]

Salaama alaikum insha'Allah your in the best health & emaan. I dont think anyone should be judging on what this sister is going through whether true or not is not are place. Allah see's all and its him who will deal with whoever is in the wrong. But as my sister in islam do you think its right for you to expose your ex husbands wrong doing in the open like this?The servant who conceals the faults of others in this world, Allah would conceal his faults on the Day of Resurrection.(Sahih Muslim)

[Aaliyah5652]

Malia hunni....you are one strong lady...And I applaud you for your courage...as for your ex he's a scum that's all that matters...