Masculinity Doesn't Equal Straight

I just wantted to clear up some misconsptions on a black man being masculine doesn't mean that a dude is straight. Plus addressing the Ghetto Gaggers video. How can a speak on the women if y'all guys doing the same damn thing they are doing. Don't believe me?


Here the link to the video.
http://www.thughunter.com

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[mocacouture]

that website is wild :-O

[reddbro7TV]

@mocacouture, Yeah it is. It shocked the hell outta me.o.O

[Tonacity]

Eeveryone is judged by your looks, social or economic status, religion, race sexual orientation etc. But in the end non of it really matters. You have to live your life for you. What has really hurt relationships are the strict labels and rules the binary concept of thinking about being male or female has done. We all have a role in life and it best suits a certain partner. Masculinity and femininity is all relative and differs in each culture. Be yourself thats all the universe asks.

[reddbro7TV]

@Tonacity, That's very true. The black church, social, and gender norms play a huge role on how a person live their lives. There's a lot of kids get kick out of the homes for being lgbt and force to turn tricks, and steal. Most don't even have place to go because their mother's boyfriends don't want her lgbt child living in the same roof as them. Most black people don't want to talk about it unless it start affecting black women directly like the whole DL phenomenon or else people don't care.

[Tonacity]

I have never heard the whole conspiracy against black men thing.. I never heard anything more ignorant in my life lol But I guess there are those that could think that. Although contrary to popular belief noone is going to change their bodies just for a BLACK MAN.. its ridiculous lol You do what you need for you to feel better about yourself noone else. People will treat you different if you are not your authentic self from the beginning. If you are you from start is the important thing.

[reddbro7TV]

@Tonacity, Yes there a lot of black conspirators feel that way especially with this whole Black Boule type of thing they are talking about on YouTube and in real life. People fear what they don't understand, and our people like put their heads in the sand. That's why black folks get infected with HIV/AIDS at a higher rates than anyone else not because someone is on the DL is because of ignorance and accountability especially among black women because they feel he's too masculine to be gay.

[Mokurentate]

Funny that the so-called "thugs" complaining about black chicks taking pink dick, are taking pink dick themselves! XD lol

[anamneses28]

What you're saying is true in that guys on the DL often get away with it because they aren't necessarily effeminate. Here in South Florida it's a dangerous game. Statistically, out of every 2-3 people you meet 1 is HIV or AIDS positive.

[slimsxyblkwoman]

@fmcneillii Most men masturbate to porn or they visualize someone to get off. Clearly, men are visual and need some kind of stimuli by touch or site & therefore (again), it comes back to using visuals or vices that they are either attracted to or stimulated by. Straight men don't seek out or visualize gay porn or gay sex to get off & visa versa. I don't know too many men who jerk off and climax without a visual in their head or some external visual of what they like or stimulated by.

[slimsxyblkwoman]

@fmcneillii So, I think it's safe to say that we can agree that a hard-on is a refective response but doesn't dictate sexuality or sexual orientation, which means that there's something else that dictate what we are attracted to and enjoy pleasure from and with. To me, the thing that drives sexuality and natural attraction and pleasurable stimuli is a combination of chemistry, emotional and desire. There's is a difference between sexuality and sexual orientation.

[slimsxyblkwoman]

@fmcneillii I don't know what gay men you know that could get aroused and be with women because if they could do that, they might as well make their life a hell of a lot easier and go ahead and be with women. You might have heard about men who got aroused by the opposite sex but I have heard the opposite. I have also heard gay men who had sex with women out of curiosity or to procreate and they say they didn't enjoy it. It was more of a chore.

[fmcneillii]

@slimsxyblkwoman If a man needed to be sexually attracted to someone in order to be "aroused" then explain to me how a man can climax while masterbating alone? I highly doubt people are sexually attracted to themselves. I'm just saying a gay man having had sex with a woman or whatever in the past doesn't mean he's all of sudden straight or bi.

[fmcneillii]

@slimsxyblkwoman should raise a red flag. Gays (even REAL gays as you put it) can be have erection triggered by being with the opposite sex. They can even climax if they wanted. There has been many cases where men complained about having erections while having a child or animal in their laps not understanding why they were "hard". An erection doesn't have to be triggered by sexual attraction since physical and/or sexual contact can trigger it alone no matter what.

[fmcneillii]

@slimsxyblkwoman You're mixing up my words. I said that who u have sex with doesn't automatically dictate your sexuality. Just being able to have sex and having had heterosexual intercourse does not make you automatically heterosexual or bi (or vice versa). I simply said is gay men have pressure from society to try to live as straight men while straight men have absolutely no reason whatsoever to have sex with a man. So if a "straight" man did had sex with another man, that

[fmcneillii]

@slimsxyblkwoman sex with a man so obviously he must have decided on his own (with no societal pressure) to have homosexual sex. With a gay man having sex with women earlier in life that is different because most if not all gay men were at one point living as "straight" men.

[fmcneillii]

@slimsxyblkwoman I"m talking about how the male anatomy works. It's actual fact and not just my opinion that having an erection does not necessarily mean u are sexually arouse. There is no way u can tell me that if a gay man has sex with a woman he now become heterosexual just because he could get an erection during sex. An erection is reflective. I also never ever said that who u had sex with dictates ur sexuality I simply said there is little reason for a straight man to want