Pregnant and 22 in College

My story, or at least part of it. My husband was injured and lost his job the day we found out was pregnant. My stance on my pregnancy with my daughter and some thoughts on recently viewed videos.

Enjoy!
(Crude, vulgar, disrespectful comments will be deleted; differing opinions will not.)

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[lifemiss]

im pro-life and i do support all of the above parents and baby.....But listen u cant NOT be pro-CHOICE&PRO-LIFE and forgive me but thats what u sound like!!! ON THE FENCE!!!

[Emirichan317]

@lifemiss Dear, you have no idea how wrong you are. I am as pro-life as you can get. But clobbering pro-choice people over the head with the truth doesn't get anyone anywhere. Instead we should be trying to show them with love why abortion isn't the answer, and show that babies are a blessing. I start with one reason and move on, try to feel out if they're objective or completely bigoted, and if they are they latter, I leave them alone. They will not hear what we say no matter how much we speak.

[Emirichan317]

The "thinking about it" thing was to show how ludicrous your thoughts can get when you're pregnant and hormonal. I would never do something like that, so women should think twice, thrice, 4x before making life decisions while pregnant! Especially something that important.

[lifemiss]

well ive picked u up wrong and im sorry i had a miscarriage about two wks ago and these ppl who can just flush there unborn bbys dwn the toilet really hurts me as i wanted my bby so much i pray and hope u have a happy labour and birth love and godbless u lifemiss

[MissCarly84]

@Emirichan317 Thats fine. I guess we both have strong beliefs on both sides of this matter, and I guess thats how we will leave it.

[MissCarly84]

@Emirichan317 A fetus is human, in the sense that it contains human DNA; however, a fetus, like an embryo, is not a human being, as it has no means of independent physiological existence. (because it does not have physiological independence outside its host—the pregnant woman).

[Emirichan317]

@MissCarly84 I am moving for the next few days and will not have a computer connection. If you reply, know I won't be on for a bit. Thanks.

[MissCarly84]

@Emirichan317 Its not just 'a part of the body', it is THE part of our body that makes us human. You say my opinions arent evidence in this arguement? Yours arent either. These are your personal opinions. None of which are backed by evidence. You asked me to provide evidence, and that I did provide. You dont like it? Well thats something you have to deal with. You cant argue with scientific fact.

[Emirichan317]

@MissCarly84 CONTD. If they think they are saving a child from an abusive relative, they are wrong. I have seen many people who were abused and while that was terrible, they overcame it and lived fulfilling lives, NOT wishing they had been killed. Also, I know of one case where the mother left 10 hrs North to the Southern states to have her baby and adopt her out. That child now has a daughter of her own and reunited with her whole family later on. Abuse needs fixing by abusers, not victims.

[Emirichan317]

@MissCarly84 If a person who knows they are killing a child is okay with it, that doesn't make it right. It makes them responsible and immoral. If they didn't know, it is sad, but what did people think that they were doing? Abortion is only necessary is there is something inside the woman to remove. NO ONE has an abortion for "potential children". They only want to get rid of the responsibility, emotional or financial or lifestyle related CONTD.