PENIS Controls My Life (various erections, blue balls, etc)

July 23, 2009. This video solely represents my experience only and not that of other transmen.

I have been receiving a lot of messages with questions about penis lately, so I've done my best to cover them all in this video.

Topics covered include: different types of erections, pee boners, blue balls, men's health, "love tool", and the penis as a barometer of the nervous system.

Feel free to offer constructive feedback, or to do a video response.

Category:

People & Blogs

Tags:

• charles
• penis
• masculinity
• men's
• health
• blue
• balls
• erections
• pee
• boner
• love
• tool
• happy
• ftm
• transguy
• transman
• guy
• dude

[0likeaduck]

I find your advice to girls about leading guys on to be really problematic. I know you say that you don't think forced sexual situations are justified, but the way you phrase the advice seems to place the burden of controlling behaviour on victims of that behaviour, rather than on the perpetrators, and while sadly that's not an uncommon attitude towards rape in our culture, it's still really messed up.

[wolfmunden]

Wow, you're so insightful! I'm a natural male and it's funny that I found out from you why I am the way I am. Everything you said about the penis is true. It was like a lightbulb being turned on in my head. It's good to get the perspective of someone who is coming from where you've been and where you are. You have insight that I don't have. Welcome to the brotherhood to brother! You are definately a man.

[bbqueenful]

great insight!! love it!!

[hombre627]

plz answer me this simple question,i will do the ftm surgery but what about penis,can i enjoy sex with it or not??

[sonicthebasedhegehog]

so let me get this straight.... you use to be a girl.... now you're a guy..... so you have alot of insight on how women and MEN think...... well, i know you're not a woman anymore......but i bet as a woman you never understood why guys did some of the things they do....and now that you have a penis..... you know.

[TheOsirisra1]

MMM, this thing about penis, and your uncommon attitude towards rape, is, if i put in another words: girls don't change mind in the last moment (of not to have sex), cause if not you can be rape!!!, you know it was so hard to stop...look Im latina and to listen this again is kind of the same bullshit machomen, Im lesbian too and I have two friends Ftm, and really what about is this video? and about jerking off ....mmm everybody needs that not just for refresh sperm!!!!

[sirgator2099]

I don't understand the position you're taking, very vague and nervously passing through words and topics as a brush off.. you don't have testicles as well???

[maharaniraz]

I would just like to say thank you. i am a trans guy at the beginning of everything and came across your video. it is nice to find someone so honest and open about it all.

[asiadunn]

some of us women get erections too sometimes. You just can't see it and it does'nt happen that often . I noticed that when my kid was even under a few months old I'd find a boner on him sometimes which suprised me when I first saw that but I took that as being natural thing in baby boys. I had two girls before him so I did'nt know. M

[hiphiphooray100]

hey! interesting but u never do something,............