I saw the movie and it is one of my favorites, the story is real to people who are adoptees or who are not so closed to their parents. Well wish you good luck on your search and hopefully your questions to your real parents will be answer.
Hi! I'm Cindy from Puerto Rico! I'm not an adopty or nor i have the age to adopt a kid yet but i've always had a nice feeling for adoption and it's still my plan when i have family of my own to adopt an Asian child. i love Korea i recently started to learn how to read korean even though i don't know the meaning yet .About the movie you were talking about that's one of my favorite movies of all time with the Asian/ American actor Daniel Henney My Father is a very touching film it's made me cry.
my adoption agency told my adopted parents that my birth parents were 18 and 19 and were at college. My dad was 5'11" and liked basketball and my mom was 5'4" and liked to read.
So even though I knew that I always wondered if they were in jail or if they were dead now. But then I realized that I'm super curious and I just want to know bcuz i can't stand not too. plus my friend just found his parents in korea and visited them. it turned out good for him and it could for me too. btw i'm 14
I learned in my parenting classes (for fostering you have to take lots of classes) that all foster kids and adoptees have fantasies of what their parents are like. I think that's pretty normal and of course you want to have a positive picture of them. After all, they are part of you and you want to have a positive view of who you are as well, right? I think it's ok to fantasize.
hi, i felt a bit emotional at the end of watching your vd seeing your emotion. i personally believe that love is a choice. no matter what who your birth parents may turn out to be, as long as you have the heart to chose to love, i think you'd be okay.
if there's a hope for you to meet your birth parents, i hope God will give you the strengths and courages to face every circumstances. blessings..
When I was 16 (I'm 20 now), I went to Korea with my family through a tour organized by my adoption agency. I had a file review, where a social worker translated a few things about my birth parents. It turns out they had a fairly scandalous affair, etc etc but before then, I too never "pictured" my birth parents as "developed" personalities with faults and merits alike.
I'm going to watch the rest of your videos and thanks for sharing this journey with the rest of us.
What if your parents are poor peasant workers? Will you still love them & respect them as your birth parents? Will you feel ashamed because they aren't Doctors, lawyers or of some other high profession? I am a birthmother and I hope that my daughter accepts me for what I am and who I am...because I am happy overall with it.
I saw the movie and it is one of my favorites, the story is real to people who are adoptees or who are not so closed to their parents. Well wish you good luck on your search and hopefully your questions to your real parents will be answer.
AngMx33 2 years ago
Hi! I'm Cindy from Puerto Rico! I'm not an adopty or nor i have the age to adopt a kid yet but i've always had a nice feeling for adoption and it's still my plan when i have family of my own to adopt an Asian child. i love Korea i recently started to learn how to read korean even though i don't know the meaning yet .About the movie you were talking about that's one of my favorite movies of all time with the Asian/ American actor Daniel Henney My Father is a very touching film it's made me cry.
Shinde16 2 years ago
hey, just think about it, if the parents aren't poor why are they gave the child.
ahhhjchise 2 years ago
u are cute!
mirabelutza18 2 years ago
my adoption agency told my adopted parents that my birth parents were 18 and 19 and were at college. My dad was 5'11" and liked basketball and my mom was 5'4" and liked to read.
So even though I knew that I always wondered if they were in jail or if they were dead now. But then I realized that I'm super curious and I just want to know bcuz i can't stand not too. plus my friend just found his parents in korea and visited them. it turned out good for him and it could for me too. btw i'm 14
nudge235twin 3 years ago
I learned in my parenting classes (for fostering you have to take lots of classes) that all foster kids and adoptees have fantasies of what their parents are like. I think that's pretty normal and of course you want to have a positive picture of them. After all, they are part of you and you want to have a positive view of who you are as well, right? I think it's ok to fantasize.
Mikavr 3 years ago
hi, i felt a bit emotional at the end of watching your vd seeing your emotion. i personally believe that love is a choice. no matter what who your birth parents may turn out to be, as long as you have the heart to chose to love, i think you'd be okay.
if there's a hope for you to meet your birth parents, i hope God will give you the strengths and courages to face every circumstances. blessings..
myschild 3 years ago
When I was 16 (I'm 20 now), I went to Korea with my family through a tour organized by my adoption agency. I had a file review, where a social worker translated a few things about my birth parents. It turns out they had a fairly scandalous affair, etc etc but before then, I too never "pictured" my birth parents as "developed" personalities with faults and merits alike.
I'm going to watch the rest of your videos and thanks for sharing this journey with the rest of us.
Melimoo 3 years ago
My father is a good film :)
I've watched it during my flight to Korea back in February
nahcey 3 years ago
What if your parents are poor peasant workers? Will you still love them & respect them as your birth parents? Will you feel ashamed because they aren't Doctors, lawyers or of some other high profession? I am a birthmother and I hope that my daughter accepts me for what I am and who I am...because I am happy overall with it.
It must be a bit unnerving facing the unknown.
RunningKicksButt 4 years ago