Dead-End Dating Patterns: The Fadeout

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[elemantal13]

I have a question about another sort of fadeout. So I've been dating this guy and in the beginning things were fun and he was really sweet and I really liked him, but now that the relationship has progressed there's no more of that fun flirty kind of experience that we had before and so I've started to push myself away because I'm feeling nothing really no passion or interest of any sort. Is this my fault, should I be trying harder to bring something back? Or should I just walk away?

[lovein90days]

great question! Always ask yourself: what am I doing to make this relationship boring? If you are in a long-term relationship you will need to reignite the flame of passion over and over again. so develop the habit of being passionate and inviting and then if your man doesn't respond, now you can question whether it's meant to be.

dr d

[Tomahawk52]

When a girl doesn't say much, or acts too serious when interacting, it's a turn-off (to me).

Seriously, do girls like boring guys? No, they don't. So by all means, say whatever you want but nothing too personal on the first date. Challenge the guy back if he challenges you.

And as Dr. D put it, BE YOURSELF. Don't try to 'fake' it and act like someone you're not. It'll bite you later down the road.

[theboombody]

What a cute dog. You can date any guy you want with her around.

[elemantal13]

Thank you so much, I will definitely try my hardest :)

[AnnyaMoon]

Good point, and people may not realize that being on ones best behaviour can be boring. lol

[BlackAsianBarbie]

Dr. Diana I want your puppy lol I love your videos they are helpful